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i just don't know what to do anymore
15/f. ok, so there's this guy who's a senior and lives about 45 min away from me, but he's kinda scared to drive on highways and so doesn't really visit me. we're really close friends and we hooked up on saturday. problem? he and my sister hate each other and my friends don't really like him either. i know my friends wouldn't care if i hooked up with him again or did anything else, but my sister would. she hates him. she started the fight that got them to hate each other in the first place and it's just so ridiculous. after he and i hooked up, she asked me about it and she knew i was lying, so she eventually got the truth out of me: we did. she told my mom and we didn't speak for a full day, the longest we've ever been mad at each other. she really hates him. so what should i do? should i just completely defy her and be "friends with benefits" with him? or should i not let the relationship continue?
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well what i do when my family member dnt like who im datin is not tell them. but thats me. maybe you should tell your sis how happy he makes you, etc. haha my bf had took me AND my family member to the movies. they talked a little. they dont hate eachotha anymore but she still dislikes him, but she never says to not date him anymore so thats a start. lol, all advice i can give you is to talk it out... holla bac at ya snowbunny
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Normally friends with benefits don't work out. Because atleast one of the people is going to develop feelings for the other. Your sister is probably concerned about you dating somebody that could turn out to be a jerk. If I were you, I would consider your sister's opinion but at the end of the day your the one that has to make the decision. Life is all about taking chances. Getting into a relationship with him could either be good or bad. But the only way to truely find out is to try it and see it.
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Your sister cares about you, and doesn't want you hooking up with someone that could ruin you.
But, I think you're old enough to make your own decisions so you should do what you want. Because you're gonna be the same way with her someday.
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