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shy guy
what are some good ways to get a shy guy to come out of his shell?
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When you dealing with shy guys, try making the first move when you see him somewhere be sure you go say hi, dont yell it from far away because then he might not know its you. guys like outgoing girls so be sure to be friendly and dont try to make him come out of his shell once he feels "comfy" around you then things will loosin up.
good luck :)
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14/f
one good skill that i always use is> make him laugh. even if it means you got to act alittle crazy or stupid. most people i know like to laugh. Or if he dont laugh often, find a subject that he likes and get his opions on it. hope it works,
Abby
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Just start asking him a bunch of questions if you know him. Like obscure stuff that will make him think. Like "what's your favorite color? why?" Force him to give more than yes or no answers. Just be nice to him. If he's a shy guy, he's also a nice guy and prolly wants the same in return. Just spending time with him and talking to him will get him out of his shell. I'm a pretty shy guy, and if a girl did all of this for me I think eventually I would come out of my shell.
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Most people appear shy until you get to know them. First, develope a confort zone between you and him by making yourself approachable and easy to talk to. You may have to lead the conversations in the beginning. Ask questions, this shows you are interested in what is going on with him. He may start out with only one word responses. Don't give up. If he is answering, there is hope. Ask about things that are going on in his life and follow up on them on future meetings. This will bill up his confidence and make it easier for him to "come out of his shell" when it comes to you.
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