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my boyfriend does weed.... it pisses me off... i wish he would quit... he tells me that he is going to do it less... weekends and one day on the weekdays.... he does it too much... he hasnt stuck with it... i dont know what to do... should i tell him its either me or that or should i tell him to cut down and if he doesnt im going to have to let him go ? i love him sooo much ... i wanna marry this kid... i just wish he was more addicted to me rather than that... its seems like that is his first priority... i hate it... what should i do? please help..
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i kno what its like 2 be addicted to weed. its not easy AT ALL to quit. so the only thing you can do is just tell him not 2 talk bout it, or smoke infront of you. bc if you tell him your gonna break up with him over that then he'll just smoke it behind your back>>>> so no point in that.
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Well first off look at it from his point of view, if hes been doing it for awhile its very hard to cure an addiction such as weed. Now as for what you should do is sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel,that it bothers you and you feel like weed is more important than you. If you love him then you wouldn't tell him its you or the weed, because if hes truely addicted he may just choose the weed and then your screwed.Just say that the weed is beginning to be too much for you and you don't know if you can handle all that. Also present yourself to be willing to help with anything to get him to stop. Basically just be his support, dont nag him too much or he may just get annoyed and dump you, just make it to where he sees that its really important to you and if he cares he will change.
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you need to give him the ultimatum. as long as you dont do anything to make him stop, he's not going to. tell him it you or the weed. do you really want to marry a guy that wont even sacrifice weed for you? you should be his number 1 priority. do what you gotta do.
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i think that you should threaten him with your relationship. tell him that if he doesn't make an obvious effort to quit, your taillights. if he doesn't seem phased by it, and thinks you're not serious, prove him wrong and let him go. i know it will hurt if it has to come to that, but think about it; if he picked WEED, instead of you, then who's the loser? i think you get what i'm sayinggg. but i'm sure he'll pick you =] but you have to lay down the law and let him know that you mean business.. good luck hun! let me know how it goes! =] ♥
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