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okay i really like this guy but im 15 and he's 17. im not sure if im getting a message or something from him. he's brought me home from school monday and friday (today). and we were talking about serious relationships and how they are hard to find. On out way to my house there was this guy in his car staring at him, and i said "looks like he's checking you out" and he was like nah, i'd much rather a girl check me out. then he was like he was probably checking you out, your the pretty one in this car, or something like that.
i love the conversations we have. like its just, i feel so comfortable around him, around most guys i would have to have all my makeup on or partilly (sp). around him i could care less, and he still talks to me as if everything was still on.
any advicee?
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Age doesn't matter. Some guys will use sweet talk to get in your pants because you're younger and ish. After you talk to him a few more times, ask him if you two can meet up somewhere. Ya know, mall or out to eat but not like a date. If he declines, maybe he just flirts with everyone and he's a player. If he accepts, judge him from there. If he stares at every hot girl while you're with him then be afraid. Be very afraid. If he talks sexually but not as a joke, he might just want you to get down your pants... I don't know who he is so I can't judge him but it's not a big age difference. But guys will do anything to get sex, so watch out.
But to make it clearer, if you feel comfortable keep talking and when you get into a REALLY good conversation, ask him to hang out. I like the fact that he called you "pretty" and not like "banging" or "sexy" because if he said you were sexy he might just like you for your body...
Anyway, I say go for it but don't get too obsessed because he might not turn out as perfect as you think....
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So the question is.... ???
If it's the age difference, it'll be a problem
when he turns 18 and you're only 16-- it's call statutory rape (if you get sexual)
But, in the meantime-- your choice, flirt alittle, allow the friendship to develop as it goes along, see if he flirts back alittle and take it from there.
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Age doesn't matter. You should throw some signs like flirting slip in the words do you think age matters in a relationship? good luck
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It does seem like he likes you, but becareful of the age difference, he may not want someone so young, yeah its only two years but at that age it is a huge difference... he also might just like the conversation it really depends on the type of guy that is..is he a sensitive guy...if he is then then he just enjoys the conversation...so you have to make sure what type of guy before trying to figure out if he likes you...
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