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I guess this goes her but HELP
Ok so there's this guy his name is Matt and i really like him but you see first of all i've never had a bf before except once and i moved away a week after we got together so i wouldnt consider him a bf but anyway i'm a 13 year old girl and this guys matt is in my grade (8th grade) and at the beginning of the school year i was sitting in my choir class and one of Matt's friends asked me if i would go out with Matt and i said no thinking they are joking or something so then a few days ago i was walking out of my choir class and these 2 guys corey and jeremy which are matt's friends and they ask me if i would go to the Valentines dance with Matt and so i told them i would get back to them and tell them my answer later though i never did cause i wanna know if they are joking so someone help are they joking or not???? and if you cant tell jsut any advice would be great please and thanks
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well if he asks you to go out with him then to the Valenties dance...say YES..and then you will find out if it is a joke but 9out of 10 times it will not be a joke
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Well it all depends on how their saying it and if they have that smerk in their eye and a giggle in their throat. But just ask one of them during lunch or something if their serious. Or say, if Matt really would like to ask me to the Valentines Dance then have him ask me or write a note. But if I were you I'd say yes. I mean whats the worst that can happen? And if people start saying you like Matt and hate that their saying that just be like oh well i thoght we were going as friends. I mean who knows maybe you two will end up going together but saying yes shouldn't have a bad effect at least not too big of one.
Good Luck
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I agree with one of the people below me - he could be shy, a lot of guys your age are. If his friends aren't laughing when they're asking you to these things, then either they're serious or just really good liars.
I don't think they'd be kidding around with this twice in a row. But, just in case, you should confront Matt and ask him if this is true! You don't have to say it face to face (because I know that could be a little..erm, okay, VERY nerve racking!). Instead, AIM him or text him, something of that sort.
Hope I helped & I wish you the BEST of luck!
-Jam
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srry but say yes and maybe youll like him
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maybe hes shy? I dunno, just try going up to him and asking him about it.
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