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Does this guy care at all?
I'm 14 and I met a guy last summer when we worked together. We only saw each other a couple of days but we really hit it off and have been texting each other for six months now. Finally, last week we had our first real date. It has taken awhile because our parents have felt like we weren't right for each other because of age. We went to the movies. We did kiss, but that was all I was willing to do. He tried to do more and he was real nice about it when I said no. Everything seemed fine. I talked to him the next few days, but now it has been four days and he hasn't been in touch. I don't know what to think cause he kept saying, next time this, next time, Does this guy care or was he just wanting to get together to see what I would do? What should I do?
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A lot of times older guys really want one thing from a girl. I'm assuming you know what that is =). If he was trying things on the first date that's probably true. I'm sure he still really liked you but he wanted more and it's completely great that you were so responsible. I would ask him about it just to be sure since 6 months is a really long time. He may just be really busy too or needs some time to figure things out. I would definitely just text him and ask him about it. I really hope I helped and good luck! =)
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Most older guys that go for younger girls want to use them for sex. So he probably realized that you wont do that with him, so he'll move on to someone that will. Which is a good thing, because that shows you what kind of guy he is. If a guy sticks around and knows your not gonna do anything like that then he knows your a good girl, respects that and really likes you. I take it that you guys don't know each other too well, so he probably will move onto someone else. So it could be worse, I know girls that did take it too far and after the guy got what he wanted, he left her. Thats just in their nature and yes I know it sucks. But there are a few good ones out there and you'll find that special one someday. Your so young and you got so much life to live so don't go wasting it on worrying about this guy. And if theres one thing that Ive learned in my life is that you should live in the moment and live to have fun, not to look for love. Love will come when you least expect it and it will be some one that will keep in contact with you. Someone you can really trust.
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I don't know this guy, but it isn't sounding very good. I mean, if he's been texting you everyday and you two have been talking that long -- and it comes your first date and you're only willing to kiss him. And now, he stops talking. Honestly, as much as I hate this for you or for anyone that goes through this type of situation, I think he's only out for sex and that cuts it.
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stay away he just wants to get something from you hes probably using you
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