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nervous as hell!!!


Question Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:44 pm

This may sound really dumb but I get really nervous just before I see my boyfriend. Like I start shivering and not feeling hungry or sick and I get a weird feeling in my stomach. I usually have to pretend to my bf that I'm cold so I'm shivering. If someone asks my a question my voice trembles ans I have to swallow about 3 times during the time I'm talking. I hate it, it feels awful and I really want to be able to see him without feeling so nervous and edgy all the time. Please, does anyone know what this is and how I can fix it???

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cuteclogger87 answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 12:55 pm:
Well it is very obvious that you like this guy! There's nothing wrong with gettin nervous before you see him! You're probably just really excited about seeing him or something just breathe and realx, you have nothing to worry about remember he is dating you so he obviously really cares and likes who you are so just relax! **Haley**

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queenhearts answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 1:39 am:
You must really like this guy. You're just nervous. I got that feeling too, it went away after a few days/weeks. You need some time to get used to him.

But remember, the whole "I'm cold" excuse isn't going to work for long.

Just tell him that you're nervous or shy around him. I'm sure he would understand.

Just take a few breaths and try to relax, before you know it.. you'll feel a bit more comfortable around him.

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sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 1:34 am:
It's probably being caused by adrenaline.

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I don't know of any ways to reduce adrenaline other than using some stress-management techniques. Take slow long breaths, relax all the muscles in your body one at a time, go for a quick jog, talk yourself down, meditate, and more. Good luck. :)

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christina answered Wednesday November 15 2006, 12:03 am:
Everyone gets that feeling. When I first met my ex-boyfriend, I was sitting next to him with my legs shaking violently. Haha, I was so nervous. I always got nervous when I went to hang out with him. You love him, so that's a natural feeling.

♥TiNA

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croat answered Tuesday November 14 2006, 11:58 pm:
there is nothing wrong with you you're just in love. it's just a feeling in the heart that you have that sends it to your whole body. don't worry about it cause it's just something natural.

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