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How to ask a guy out?
How exactly should i ask this guy out? What should i avoid? i was thinking of asking him to the next dancebut i'm afraid that he'll go off with another girl at the dance. I have real self-confidence problems, espically with Guys. Everyone thinks i am a guy beacuse my hair is really short. i don't think he'll go out with me because i don't look like any of the " popular" girls. please Help!!!
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A guy should like you for your personality or if you're fun to be around. most guys like girls who look good. Take a chance with that guy. If he says no then move on. If he every says no to you he's not the right one. Now as for the asking him out part. Try to get him alone so no one over hears you. Simply say something about you've been crushing on him and then ask him if he wants to go out with you. Good Luck!
-Lyss
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There's an old song from way before I was born that I still laugh at thinking about "Popular girls"
"If you want to be happy for the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you."
Ask him. That's the best advice I could ever give anyone is to go for it. If he doesn't want to, you tried. If he does, you got what you wanted. If he leaves you, he wasn't worth it anyway. If he doesn't... Well, congratulations. You've got a boyfriend. ;)
And, popular girls aren't often worth 'the hassle' they usually give... They're often shallow, self-centered and arrogant to a fault. Truth be told, the 'normal' ones will always be the ones who end up with happy relationships.
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first off take it from a guy's point of view, all guys think about the "popular girls" is how to fuck them and then leave them, not really have a relationship with them. there is no sence in going big at the first step, start slow like hw and then a class or teacher you know, and then a movie (if you are so worried about him leaving you at the school dance) take it slow and steady. the moment someone tries and rush you then step on their ball. really do that, guy don't like to admit it but they like a girl who knows who she is and can take charge even if it means stoppin things. it doesn't matter what others think about you only what you think about yourself, everyone else is just a hater so frak them and what they think. stand tall and proud, and be the great person that you know you are.
croat
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