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FRIEND WONT SHUTUP ABOUT GUYS
Okay, so my best friend and I are guy crazy..but she has like a new boyfriend every week and/or has this "hott guy" whose like 5 years older than her who likes her. I mean when we talk on the phone THATS ALL SHE TALKS ABOUT and she tells me every single detail and wont shutup about "oh my gosh he's really cute". But whenever i have guy news she doesnt comments or she's like "oh,wow" then she continues on with her stupid conversation. I MEAN YEAH SHE'S A HOE!!! EVERYONE AT SCHOOL SAYS IT. But how do i tell her to shut the eff up without sounding so mean?
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MY FRIEND ACTS THE SAME EXACT WAY!! its soooo annoying! well what i did was one day i got so fed up i was just like can you stop talking about guys the whole time, most of the time i dont really care and it just makes you look like a slut. Sure she might mad at you, but then the next day say i wasnt meaning to sound so rude or but stop talking about guys the whole time. and yeahh haha
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its veryyy annoying i know, but just be strong and let her know, it will work
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"If she turns on you, she was never your friend to begin with." NOOOOO. Do not yell at her. Simply tell her you are tired of hearing about this guy and explain why. Tell her that you are tired of seeing her with a new guy every week. Do not yell at your friend..she does not know she is bothering you. She is not doing it intentionally..she is just excited about this super "hot guy." Calmly tell her you do not want to hear about this guy anymore for the main fact that she will probably dump him in the next week or so. She can find someone better. Ask her to hang out in order to develop inside jokes..so she can take her mind of this guy. A friendship is a two way street. Yes, I understand that when she says "Oh wow.." to you, it is very inconsiderate. I have had friends that were like that as well. Whenever they wanted me to listen, I would listen. But when it came my turn to talk about a guy? "Haha, that's funny" AND THEN THEY MOVED ON. Yes it bothered me..but it was just their personalities. It may be a little selfish, but it's just who they are. If you and your friend can't find something else to talk about besides this guy of hers, you don't need her or her friendship. Find a friend who WILL listen to you.
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Having a "hoe" friend is a bad idea in the first place. Soon people will think your a hoe. Tell this girl she needs to be a little more secretive about this. Having 1 boyfriend aweek? Does she think thats safer than 12 guys a week,because if so she's wrong, tell her. Sometimes being mean is the right thing to do.
-Laney
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Sometimes being mean is the only way to do it.
Being honest is being mean.
Tell her, straight up to her face.
If you don't, someone else will.
If she turns on you, she was never your friend to begin with.
Think about what your morals are.
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