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middle school?
k, well i kinda guess i need someone whos already been in middle school to answer this..
when you were in middle school, were all the major slutty kids the most popular? like girl wise? & does that mostly change in highschool? because, i mean some of them are my friends & are actually cool, but some are just annoying & guys tottaly use them. but like, i once joined into that, & then for the most part regretted it. but like you always will here these stories about who made out with who & who did what. & then i dont know it makes me feel out of the group. but like i dont know..
im just wondering does it get better?
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When I was in middle school, kids were just starting to smoke pot & drink. I mean, there were parties, but they weren't how they are now.
The slutty girls were usually the most rejected among the other girls. You don't have to be a slut to be cool or accepted by guys. Be yourself & stop caring what people think. That usually does it.
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When I was in middle girls, all the boys were over the slutty girls. It changes in high school though. You will hear the make-out stories, though. I was once pressured into drinking, because all of the "popular" girls brought beer into a girl-boy party during middle school. No one drank the beer besides her and her friends. Soon, they were not popular. They played hookey often, were drunk and wore slutty outfits to school. No one liked them afterward. This changes in high school, no worries.
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listen just like a the other people said there are always going to be those girls, but i do need to say this not all of them are bad. There are some really nice slut. Doesnt really make sense but it does. don't worry about it popular means people know you not what they know you for. I am popular at my highschool but im the nice funny guy.
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hey
i've been in middle school for 3 years (it's april & i'm graduating in june). we had different cliques. the prettiest girls were the populuar ones, and slowly the evolved into slutty / popular. the "ghetto" girls were the slutty ones, always having sex. the skaters drank.
i dont think it changes much in high school. i mean the biggest change was from 5th to 6th grade... everyone got social classes. & in high school you'll be with pretty much the same people. some people in high school said that the popular girls turn into the slutty ones, the slutty ones turn into the really really slutty ones, like the prostitutes (ha, jk) & a new line of pretty girls evolve and become the new popular girls.
gossip & drama = a part of middle & high school. gotta deal with it. i ignore it by hanging out with people i truly like & care for. i've made lots of friends outside of my school who i dont have to worry about them being cool or not. i also dont really go on aim that much anymore for the risk of getting sucked into the supermassive black hole of gossip, drama, lies, tears & boys.
in high school, however, the groups DO change a little bit. you stop caring about the people who you never liked & mistreat you, & meet new people who you like. everyone dresses differently, not just abercrombie & hollister. you grow close freshman, sophomore, & junior years. and then you go off to college after senior year. it hurts, losing a lot of your friends. but you stick with them.
overall, it does get better if you want it to.
i hope i helped & dont hang with kids who mistreat you.
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in my middle school there were alot more ty people now than in my highschool. i guess you would call them "popular" when they were in middle school but they were only popular with the ty people at that time.
now we're all in high school and most of the s got more mature and now i'm friends with some of them and they're definetly not s anymore and they regret acting that way in middle school. now there's fewer s and they have hardly any friends except the rest of the "slut group" and the guys that use them.
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that's exactly how i felt in middle school! the girls who had the most boyfriends were always the 'popular' ones, or the ones who boys wanted to hang out with. but honestly, all the girls who did that grew up to be bigger sluts. but then being a slut isn't as cool. so basically my advice is don't try to be a slut because in the long run, it'll just worsen your reputation. for now, just stick with your friends and you can go after the occasional crush if you want to. enjoy what you have and not what you could be having.
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There's always gonna be slutty girls. Be yourself; don't dress like a prostitute for attention. Junior high and highschool, you'll learn pretty quickly who your real friends are and who's a backstabbing two-faced liar.
It gets better, I suppose. Because the abovementioned slutty, two-faced backstabbers tend to associate only with their own kind, and will pretty much leave everyone else alone. As long as you don't like, insult Abercrombie in front of them or get in their face, you'll be totally fine =]
I'm only in my freshman year- but middle school (and highschool, as far as I can tell, so far) is an incredible time of your life and you'll learn so much more than calculus and the rate of the Earth's gravitational force.
All in all, it's great. Enjoy yourself and don't think about the popular crowd- they're popular for the wrong reasons, anyways.
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people get more mature as time goes on....
with that said, there are still alot of slutty girls in high school, and most of them get used, but they also wisen up.
Just dont worry about, they'll find out on their own terms and they will get better, and if not, they lead the life they choose to.
Hope I helped
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