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are they my real friends and would you get mad
ok.... so im 13/f and at school my bestfriend started hanging out with this girl that i got into a fist fight with and became bestfriends and then she got mad at me cause her boyfriend said he liked me instead of her then she got like almost the hole school against me and started calling me a "fat ugly cow" and that "i look like a side of a cow" and started wrighting on the walls about me i love her like a sister and all but is she really my friend
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No... its not your fault that her boyfriend likes you more...You should sit her down and have a conversatin with her about it... Tell her how you feel about the whole thing.. And if she is your best friend and you wouldn't do anything to hurt her than tell her that!
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judging by the way shes acting, she doesnt seem to be your friend at this moment
what i would do in that situation, is see why she is so mad at you and try to figure it out
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That friendship is loooong over. And if she ever apologizes, you can forgive her, but that doesn't mean she's your friend and it doesn't mean you should associate with her.
A friends stick by your side. Friends are the ones telling you it's OK when an ENEMY like her verbally abuses you.
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Sorry but I don't think she's acting like a real friend would. If I were you, I wouldn't have anything to do with her, even if she DID say sorry. Doing the things she did, it seems like she doesn't care about your feelings at all. As hard as it seems I think you should try finding new friends, and if the backstabbing keeps going on, you'll have to talk to the principal or teacher about it.
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ummmmmmmm, no. real friends stick with you when things get tough, and it sounds like she just got bitchy. I hate to say that, but thats what it sounds like.
Just let the insults slide off, see if her bf, or ex, either way, actually likes you or not, and take things from there.
Just leave her alone. You may love her like a sister, but thats not how she loves you.
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absolutely not. real friends are supposed to be there for you in your time of need. if she started calling you a "cow," she's not your friend. and that other girl you got in a fistfight with is not your friend either.
i think you should find new friends. this is beyond, "just deal with it for now." if she's in none of your classes, just don't talk to her. in the hallways, ifs she says, "hi," say it back so that she doesn't hate you & if you ever need her in the future (trust me. you never know. like if you & her get put it the same class & you have no friends in that class & you have to pick a partner...). just keep your space with her.
another thing you can do is tell her it hurt your feelings and to stop. maybe you can repair the friendship by letting her know how you feel if she doesn't already know. if she ignores you & says she doesn't care, just move on. you dont need people who are mean to you.
good luck & never do things that you dont believe are right.
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