Me and My sister's neighbor are friends. We started out really slow then over spring break she just can;t stop hanging out with me. I mean everytime, which i like. But I feel she giving me these mixed signals like she wants to be more than friends but when I asked she says no which i know she is lying. But she has alot of drama and I found out today, she is pregnant by her best best friend and she having an abortion!. which i don't believe and she don;t wanna be with him. I feel she wants to be with me because she is alaways around me and always flirting, touching me sexual but wat to do??? She even told me she would like to be with me but she can;t! HELP!!!!!
Additional info, added Tuesday April 3 2007, 2:02 am: That's true, I heard from my sister that she was pregnant but I verified it by her in small hints, before my sister told me. She met with the guy that same day and told him, she don't want him and the baby. It's really complicated and I am so confused!! I like her but it seems that we should be friends till all the drama is settled and she makes the first move. I get this feeling, she wants to change and do the right thing but againg she is so scared to do it. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Ilovehippies answered Sunday April 1 2007, 1:07 pm: sounds like this girl is quite complicated. I think that it all comes down to if you want to be with her. I dont know if the pregnancy thing is a rumor or not (you didnt say) but regardless, even if she is, you already said she doesnt want to be with the guy, she wants to be with you.
Just slow things down, and try to talk to her about it. If she does like you (really like you) and she's not just flirty, then you take things from that. Its up to you.
BitsandPieces answered Sunday April 1 2007, 12:00 pm: Stay friends, but take it slow. Don't believe any third party rumors about anything. Whether or not this girl is pregnant is her business. It has nothing to do with you at this point. When she is comfortable she will want to open up to you more, so don't get paranoid now. Keep it real simple. Life is complicated enough without overreacting to rumors. [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
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