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what i'm i supposed to do when my friend (its a guy)keeps telling me about all of this perverted stuff his g.f is doing and it makes him mad? i told him if its gross not to tell me, but he did anyway. he is the most sensitive guy i have ever met and idk what i should do. i hate to say it but almost everyone from his town are slutty, including his g.f. i tried to tell him that it probably wont work out but he really likes her. and every time i talk to him, even if i dont ask him he spills out his entire life. he's really nice and i want to be friends with him, but i dont want to be his therapist. what should i do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
You're right, because you're his friend, it doesn't require you to be his therapist, but it does require for you to be there for him when he needs you most. How would you feel if he just decided not to do the same for you when you needed him? Don't you think that'd be a little messed up if you went to someone for help & they just didn't help you at all?
Just be there for him. He needs you to help him, and you shouldn't really be upset about that. Be happy that he trusts you enough to let you know what's going on, and that he trusts you to let you help. Just keep being there for him, and help him out. Like you said, he's a nice kid & he basically deserves it. And to warn him about his girlfriend, just tell him casually. Be like "No offense, but your girlfriend gets around, so you might wanna be careful with her so you don't get hurt." If he's really your friend, he'll appreciate the tip. =)
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just try to be his friend first and answer his questions. You can help him with his problems without being his therapist.
And try to warn him about his girlfriend, dont be mean about it, just try to talk it out with him.
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