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does he like me?
So there's this guy that I happen to be really good friends with. Earlier this year he went out with my best friend, but broke up with her because he said he just didn't feel the same about her. a little while after they broke up, i started to like him...a lot! but just a few days ago, that same friend said that he told her that he liked her again, and now she likes him again. and just yesterday, she said he didnt like her anymore. confusing rite? well, i still really like him, and like i said, we're really good friends, but i want to be more than friends. a lot of people would just say, 'tell him how you feel, or get a friend to ask you' but does someone have any other creative ideas to find out if he likes me?
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well ok i understand completely.
umm well he might like you but the most obvious thing would be of course flirting. the problem is that what may seem as flirting to you or me is actually a guy just trying to be friendly. but this can be misinterpreted as a "sign" that he likes you. some guys arent very sure of what they want.
it sounds like he is very confused about whether his relationship with her will work out and thats why he says different things, sometimes he likes her or sometimes he doesnt.the thing is maybe he just wants to be friends with you. i thought for the longest time that my best friend felt a certain way about me and then it turned out that he was just trying to be friendly because i am like a sister to him. and this maybe the case for you as well. i think you should talk directly to him. thats what i did. he explained that he didnt want a commitment and that he really values our friendship. trust me if he is really your friend he wont care if you like him. it wont ruin your friendship. if he does like you then thats great, if not than thats ok too. well im sorry if im bringing you down. thats not my intention at all. i would like to help you some more. so write me back if you feel the need to. i hope this helps. sorry im not very creative as far as other ways to tell him. you can flirt with him and see if he flirts back. if he does then maybe he likes you. anyways, good luck.
im here anything you need.
oh and im 14/f btw
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Don't listen to the girl below me, she obviously lives in a hole because her answer made no sense & she's got no idea what she's talking about.
With that said, just go for it. I know it's such a overrated answer, but it's the truth. Just go for it. The worst thing he can tell you is that he's gay, he doesn't like you, or he's got a girlfriend. And if he doesn't like you, then at least you found out & wouldn't have regretted it.
Just tell him or you'll regret it. Trust me.
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he dosnt like you he likes how he cant be with you and its not worth trying so plese just listen to me and waist your time as well as your freindship it will hurt you and your freind
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