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being myself
hello sorry this may be long...
so i'm 15/f i'm usually very happy, hyper, lound, random, funny, and just a crazy child espically arouhnd my good friends. but recently i'm finding that a lot of people find me annoying? i don't understand why. i mean i'm not a jerk or anything i'm myself 100% but i'm starting to think being myself 100% isn't doing me anygood. and i want to try and be more quite a more personal person. my my usual everyone knows i'm in the room have to tell everyone everything and how i feel all the time. does anyone have any suggestions on adivce on what i should do. should i contine to be 100% myself lound,crazy, random and kinda stupid, or only 70% me more laid back, quite personal person.
and i'm starting to think that being 100% is turning guys away cause i tend to say stupid things because i just say what i think and not think and i dk what to do.
any help would be greatt.
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I was like you last year. I was the loud, crazy, hysterically funny girl. I was fun to be around, and I was always the center of attention, BUT I annoyed a ton of the people around me. There's a right place & right time for everything. And there's certain times you need to know when to be quiet, and serious. Just try not to be so loud & crazy. You can still be random & funny, but just tone it down a bit because it can scare people off. I had a guy who liked me but then stopped liking me because he said I was too loud. =/ So, just try & tone it down a little.
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i think that there is a time and a place for everything. sometimes, its okay to be yourself. sometimes its better to be laid back. just learn to realize when being laid back is more appropriate. Sometimes it does get annoying always being hyper.
be a little more laid back.
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umm...well i kinda have a friend like that..and i always wish she would just sometimes shut-up....so you should be yourself but at sometimes kinda be laidback and not so hyper..
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