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does anyone know where a good website for spelling is.. (link)
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you can use dictionary.com or if you use AIM you can just IM SmarterChild [the AIM bot, just in case you didn't know lol] and say spell followed by the way you think the word is spelled.
for example:
your sn: spell freind
SmarterChild: Here are some spelling suggestions for "freind":
1 friend
2 frond
3 friends
4 Freons
5 fiend
the first one is the right way to spell it a majority of the time.
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hello... i really need your help so please dont judge me by what is seems....
last week, i really aggravtated my parents.
my parents walked in on me while i was doing smoking, which reaally isnt as bad as you think.
so every night for about an hour or so, they lock me in the basement and dont feed me dinner.
one night, they caught me smoking again, so they locked me in the basement for 2 full days.
i dont know if i should report them to the police, or accept my punishment.
ok thats one problem, but another huge problem has come up more recently.
ive been cutting myself because i cant go through with this shit
WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
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You should definitely report them to the police. locking you in a basement is dangerous and not feeding you is torture. this is basically abusive in my opinion. pleas, please, please stop cutting, you're making things worse than they should be. cutting is not the answer, you have a full life ahead of you. even though you made a mistake by smoking, your parents made an even bigger mistake by torturing you in this way, and deserve to pay a huge price. call the police, and soon everything will be ok. good luck!
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my girlfriend was over one time. and i asked her if she wanted to have sex and she said no. which i figured since shes waiting for marriage. then i decided i didnt care and i sat on her and forced her clothes off. shes really tiny and week she weighs like 91 and i weigh 156 so it wasnt hard. she tried to get me off of her but we both knew she couldnt. so my friend who was coming over to hang out with us came. and he held her down while i fingered her. she was screaming and telling me to stop but i didnt. then he sat on her and held her legs apart while i stuck my dick in her vagina. she was screaming and crying for us to stop she said it hurt.so my friend told me to punchh her so she will shutup so i did. i didnt mean to punch her that hard but she passed out. so i finished up and my friend left. and i just stared at her. i didnt mean to hurt her. i love her soo much. and i couldnt believe all the bruises all over her shoulders,legs,arms,colar bone and her face was dripping blood. so i got a towel and wiped it off. then when she woke up she couldnt move so i helped her get dressed and carried her home. i kept apoligizing but she didnt say anything to me. when i see her in school she looks scared and runs away from me. how cdo i get her to tlak to me thanks. (link)
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First of all what you did was completely unacceptable. how could you take advantage of her like that? you probably made her life very difficult and scary by doing this. What you should do is turn yourself in, you did something terrible, and you deserve to pay the price for it. its that simple. if you don't take my advice, then you'll spend the rest of your life with this inside you, and it'll never leave you. i guarantee that.
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okay my problem is. . i take everything WAYYY TOO SERIOUSLY. like i need to relax i know and just not think about little things that botehr me but sometimes i just feel like i need anger mangment my mom makes me GO CRAZY! she yells all the time and its hard to control myself and i just stress over stupid thinngs, making little stuff a big deal and im just really frustreated and mad (link)
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Maybe you're stressed out. Try to figure out why. Is it school? Is it your mom? Whatever it is you need some relaxation. Instead of concentrating on what bothers you, concentrate on what makes you happy. Whenever you feel angry and unrelaxed, do something that will help you get your mind off of it. Take a walk, do yoga/pilates, call/hang out with friends, join a club or after school activity, draw, write down your thoughts, etc. Anything that can draw you away from the little annoyances in your life can help. Also, maybe try to talk to your mom, tell her how you feel. Having calm communication is always helpful. good luck!
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what is the name of the sone ( kinda hip-hop ) that goes.."if that aint love then i dont know what love is". (link)
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Cupid's Chokehold by Gym Class Heroes
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hey. i have two best friends. and this year it was always the 3 of us. but not it is starting to just be the 2 of them. they constantly leave me out of plans, and then if the other cant make it, im the backup. or they feel bad and invite me later. i dont like it at all. and before i've told htem about it and they are just like "oh i feel bad". it really makes me mad, and they have been treating me badly for a while now, and all of my other friends wonder why i put up with it. what should i do. because one of the friends i have been wicked close wiht for 2 years.
thanksss in advance (link)
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You shouldn't have to put up with it. Tell them how this is making you feel. It's not fair that youhave to be pitied that way. If they don't listen, don't have plans with them at all. You have other friends, i'm sure they want to hang out with you.
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how do i begin? im so confused. my friend named kelsey is going through some things and has been for ever. shes starting to become popular and has been ignoring me for awhile. i've just recently found out that she has been lying to me about a lot of things. she pretends to be her 20 year old sister and has 5 boyfriends she talks to on the fone and online. she uses me, and a bunch of my other friends. we got into this huge fight and i flipped out on her. i almost got so mad that i whooped her but luckily for her my friends pulled me back. melissa, you know who i am. im ur best friend.. i start with a J. anyways im trying to keep this anonomus. WHAT SHOULD I DO?! (link)
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Friends who use you and lie to you aren't worth it. Why should you have to deal with that? if she is going to be a bad friend and treat you and other people like she does, then she doesn't deserve to have you and those other people as friends. you have other friends who care about you and u know you can trust them. those friends are worthwhile. if she decides to apologize one day and own up to what she did, then you can decide if u still want to be her friend.
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okay well this girl has been hanging out with me and my grou of freind for a while and for about 3 months now we have all found out that none of us liked her. We all were just getting along with her just becasue we all thought everyone else liked her but now my freinds are still acting likethat but yettheyl tell me that they are wanting her out of our group what do i do? (link)
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I don't think any of you have even tried to get to know her. Give her a chance. If you kick her out of her group you don't know what you can be doing to her. Losing friends is one of the most painful things to go through in a girl's life. Trust me, I know. Just get to know her a little more. Like they said in Boy Meets World, "lose one friend, lose yourself."
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I really want a new screename. I want my name in it which is Michelle. Something basic, but original. Since i have no originality, does anyone else? haha thanks =] (link)
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michelle owns xo
michelles here
talk to michelle
YAY its michelle
michelle is love
and if you ever go by mich here are some
mich equals LOVE
UknowUwantMICH
itsMICHofCOURSE
i should IM mich
hope you like=]
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Hello im crying my eyes out because i think im over weight....i dont look it but the BMI thing says I am IM like 5'2 and like somewhere inbetween 127-130 pds....omg i hate myself...im thinking of anorexia. (link)
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Don't be so hard on yourself. Anorexia is not the answer at all. If you think anorexia is going to help, all it'll do is make things worse. You can become way too thin, get very sick, your hair and skin will become very unhealthy, you'll start passing out a lot, you'll become to tired to do anything, etc. This can be damaging to your life, and i'm sure you don't want that. Honestly, your weight isn't bad at all. But if you want to lose a little weight, get some exercise, eat healthier, save junk food for special occasions. Do not become anorexic, live your life without letting that control you. everything will be ok.
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okay so i hate reading. i can only read books that are intersting or else i just fade away and dont even no what i just read. so i was wondering wat are some good books. like preppy books. or just fun to read. thankss (link)
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clique series, a-list series, gossip girl series, it girl series, sisterhood of the traveling pants series, confessions series
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my friend got caught for shop lifting while we were with her she was on camera, me and my friend steph didnt want to stop her or say anything because of her family problems, (her dad died) THe police caught her and searched stephs bag at the time but no mine, they let us go while they took ashley to the shop to return thwe things shes stolen. Ashley told her mum that we were with her and did it aswell, i spoke to her mu and told her we didnt but she said u must have ashley wouldnt of done it on her own, and asked for mine and stephs phone numbers! she phoned both our parents it all ended in a big mess and stephs house, Ashleys mum said steph and i have done something, and will not get away with it! mine and stephs parents kind of believe we havnt stolen, but dont trust us as much anymore and say we should of stopped her. Ashleys mum has given our names forward to the police even though at the time they said we can go, so im not sure wether the police will come knocking at my door at anytime im so so scared and feel really bad, i feel as though i have nothing to live for and my live has ended! i no to tell the truth but what else help! ? (link)
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That's a bad situation. Well basically, Ashley's mom has no right to accuse you and Steph of this. She wasn't their, and the police who caught Ashley didn't make it up. I know that her and her mom must be going through a very difficult time, but that doesn't give them the right to blame other people for their actions. Ashley should be owning up to what she did, and not letting her mom blame you. Also, you should tell you're parents that they know you would never steal, and it hurts that they don't trust you as much just because someone falsely accused you of something.
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hey. 14/f. so last year in 7th grade there was this girl, and we were pretty good friends, because we had all of our classes together. well, this year (8th grade) we have 1 class together and we still talk, but only in that one class. well, shes like in the really "popular" croud and on the 13th her and her friend (really really popular) are having their b day partys together. so in this 1 class we are in together, we are the only people to talk to each other. cause like all of the other kids are 7th graders and we just never talk to them. and she was telling me about their party and how they are inviting pretty much everyone in the 8th grade. and she told me that i was gonna get an invitation. so today i go to school and everyone is talking about how they got an invatation and how excited they are for the party. but of course, i did not get one. and she told me i would! tomorrow is when we have our 1 class together, but i'm not sure if i want to talk to her because i'm really kinda pissed. and no, its not just the mail or anything. i live in HER town-the exact same town as her, and people that live like 20 min away already have hers. and i just don't know what to do. i feel like ignoring her, but idk. i just think it is rude how she said i would be invited, yet i did not get an invite. so what should i do?? thanx! (link)
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Don't be too quick to judge. maybe she doesn't know your address, or maybe there was a problem with the mail. maybe she wanted to give it to you personally. maybe after inviting so many people she forgot to write out your invitation. give it a little time. If you wanna find out for sure, maybe bring up something about the party to her. by the way she reacts to you bringing it up will be easy to tell her reason for u not getting an invitation. if you really weren't invited, i wouldn't have any respect for her regarding the fact that she told you you were getting invited. good luck.
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okay so me and jamie have been friends since kindergarden. but this year shes been hanging out with this girl stacey and me and stacey were pretty close before stacey and jamie HUGE friendship. and jamie like hangs out with stacey like 24/7 and im NOT even kidding. its so annoying. they leave me out of EVERYTHING. and bacically they do it on PURPOSE(i think) they dont even BOTHER to talk to me like alone. III have to go to them. then at the auction thing stacey and her friend olivia(are in a fight and now stacey was going to tell her off)so she was like jamie come with me to tell her off but jamie didnt want to..yadda yadda...and then while olivia and stacey were talking things out, jamie i guess realized stacey really wasnt her friend so she came to me and she was like im sorry ..yadda yadda your my real friend..yadda yadda.
then the next day, she DID the opposite of what she told me! she hung out with stacey like NOTHING happened!! and then today i was sitting by like jamie and stacey and some of my other friends and they went into the hall(w/o telling me)so i went too! and now my friend alex tells me that they were talking about how i was FOLLOWING THEM??!?!?!??! uhh what do i do?
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You should really talk to Jamie. she is not being a true friend to you if she says you're following them. she's being unfair to you and treating u cruelly. tell her if she's not going to include you in her and stacey's friendship, then she doesnt deserve to have you as a friend. don't let her get away with this. if you don't confront her she'll never understand how this makes you feel and will treat u worse. good luck
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I care about my best friend more than anyone else. This will probally be long but please read. My best friend is in a lot of pain right now. She misses her boyfriend deeply (who she dumped) and cries about him alot. Its hard for her to face him. She always tells me how she loves him and how she misses him. They have been apart for over a month now. He wont take her back anymore. He likes one of our best friends which is also upsetting her. She is having problems with her leg as well. I try to encourage her and make her feel better and be there for her but its not working. I learned she cries every night and she told me she hated herself. She has guys over her sooo much at school but she never pays any attention to them. Shes very depressed. I want to help her but I dont know how. Any advice? (link)
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The best you can do is be a best friend. Be there for her when she's down. try to get her mind off her ex. always have something fun to do when you make plans with her. let her pour her heart out to you. it'll get her feelings off her chest once she lets it out. look back on fun times you've had with her. make her laugh. eventually she will feel better, but it'll definitely take time. just be her friend that she can always count on. you're probably a great friend since you want to help her so much. good luck
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I'm a fourteen year old female with a sixteen year old boyfriend. We've been going out for five months. I really want to have sex with him. I'm just worried that fourteen is too young and I'll be a whore. Can someone please tell me what they think? We've been going out long enough I believe. I'm comfortable with him entirely. He really does love me and I love him. So what do you guys think? (link)
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I really don't think you should. You are only fourteen, you are way too young and you have no idea what you're getting yourself into. it doesn't matter whether you love him or not. sex is a very serious matter, and it can change your life very drastically. and you can get pregnant, u can get AIDs, you can get STD's, for all you know. sex is something that you should do when you're old enough. you are too young, live your life, don't do something you'll regret for the rest of your life
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This is going to be long but im going to try to make it short:
Ok this year i lost about FIVE "bestfriends" they all screwed me over and like i feel so upset and sad that like i treat them so equally and i would beat up anyone for them and basically i would be there for them. When i thought they could be there for me one by one they start to screw me over its just making me really sad and depressed that like you can be BESTFRIENDS with someone for OVER 5 YEARS and some less and then they just screw you over. How is that? Should i start talking to each of them? or should i just let them live there own life and keep them out of mine??
ughh itsss so sad i hate thiss (link)
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I know how you fee, i've been through a similar situation so i can definitely help you. Always take this to consideration; GIRLS ARE MEAN. They always have been and always will be. Especially during preteen through teenage years. Friends, and even Best friends, aren't always who they seem to be. At one point in my life, i lost friends who truely honestly were my best friends. but they screwed me over for no reason. and it hurt a lot. after trying to be the bigger person and work things out, they never bother to care, and i realized that they aren't true friends anymore. i still had other best friends who cared about me, and i don't need to put up with friends who don't. You should talk to them if you want to, but if they don't care, then they aren't who you made them out to be. i'm sure you still have other best friends who care about you and they are the one's who are important. good luck!
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Im 14/f and he is 15/m
Well, lately My boyfriend and i haven't had anything to talk about on the phone. It seems like we have drifted apart. We have been going out for 5 months and 9 days. I love him, but im not in love with him. He has a low self esteem and thats a major turn off for me. Just because me and him are so different. But, i dont know what happened? I mean this just started getting this way. And we fight constantly about the most stupid things ever. And every little thing he does annoys me like crazy. And he'll get mad over little stuff. And to be honest he acts like a girl. Always whining and getting upset about something. I dont want our relationship to end, but in a way i do. But for now since i am in doubt, i thought i would just get advice to see what people think about this. And i guess i kinda just dont want to hurt him anymore.
i dont know.. any advice would be nice =] (link)
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Maybe you both should talk about your relationship. Consider a lot of things. Are you happy with this realtionship? Do you see this relationship going anywhere? Is it time to move on and meet new people? Are you able to continue these little fightsany longer? If you and him still want to be together, try to talk about improving your relationship, so both of you are happy. i hope everything works out for you!
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what are some new songs and old songs that are on z100? i need some/alot of new songs for my ipodo. (link)
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http://www.z100.com/pages/media/playlist.html
there's a list there =]
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I don't know whether or not this fits here, but here I go.
My friend's parents have gotten divorced in a rather messy way, causing her mother's almost mental breakdown and constant crying. Her father, on the other hand, is being overly nice to my friend.
Due to her sister's influence, my friend started smoking and drunk some alcohol. Now, my friend regrets this, and hates that she is now addicted to cigarettes. She's trying to stop, but it doesn't seem to be enough.
Recently, her mother found her sister's birth control pills and some drugs, and now suspects both my friend and her sister. The mother then proceeded to say that they would be kicked out of the house if she caught them taking drugs. The mother then told the father, who said he would not allow them in his house if they were kicked out, either.
So. What can I do to help my friend, and what advice can I give her? (link)
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First, you should keep a close eye on her. spend more time with her. if you see her taking drugs, smoking, stop her. and be firm. if you find cigarettes and drugs in her room, take them away and throw them out where they cant be found again. and it might help that she knows you're doing that. spend more time with her. make her feel better. get bad situations off her mind. be a good friend, a good friend could have a major affect on someone.
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