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my 2 best friends..
hey. i have two best friends. and this year it was always the 3 of us. but not it is starting to just be the 2 of them. they constantly leave me out of plans, and then if the other cant make it, im the backup. or they feel bad and invite me later. i dont like it at all. and before i've told htem about it and they are just like "oh i feel bad". it really makes me mad, and they have been treating me badly for a while now, and all of my other friends wonder why i put up with it. what should i do. because one of the friends i have been wicked close wiht for 2 years.
thanksss in advance <3
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You shouldn't have to put up with it. Tell them how this is making you feel. It's not fair that youhave to be pitied that way. If they don't listen, don't have plans with them at all. You have other friends, i'm sure they want to hang out with you.
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Sad but true, i believe that its time to start a new bestfriend relationship with someone else. Two years may seem vey close but i am plenty sure you can find someone much better that will be your BFF for a much longer time. Ditch them. Your better off. Ignore them completely. I am pretty sure they will come back to you or wonder where you are. When they choose to get sick of eachother they will come back, then you can tell him to "fuck off". I had gone thru this with a bestfriend of mine and i knew her since 2nd grade and i'm 25 now. That is a long relationship and ive accepted the fact that she wants to act this way. Your probably a much better friend then they are to you and i'm very sure you can make a shit load of friends easy. Keep your head up. =]
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I wonder why you put up with it too. They're ditching you & leaving you out, and then when you say something, they give you some bullshit about how they feel bad, only to do it again. They're not sorry, and they're not sincere, and they're not your friends. Start hanging out with your other friends & stop hanging out with these two. They're fake, and rude. Simple as that.
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i know just have u feel cuz i have the same problem usually i would get so mad that i wpuld ingored them for like a week and then they would come talk to me and ask me what wrong and stuff to get them to notice me and it work. But im not saying you should do that im just sayin maybe you should talk to them tell them how you feel about maybe they will listen.
goodluck
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