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we all don't approve
okay well this girl has been hanging out with me and my grou of freind for a while and for about 3 months now we have all found out that none of us liked her. We all were just getting along with her just becasue we all thought everyone else liked her but now my freinds are still acting likethat but yettheyl tell me that they are wanting her out of our group what do i do?
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That happened to me before. There was a new girl and no one in my group liked her, but she would follow us around all the time because she didn't know anyone else. I thought I hated her, but once I got to know her we actually became really good friends. So give the girl a chance, you may have judged her to quickly. It can be really hard to lose friends or not to have any. I wouldn't suggest kicking her out of your group. If you still don't like her once you get to know her better then maybe you should try introducing her to some new people.
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I don't think any of you have even tried to get to know her. Give her a chance. If you kick her out of her group you don't know what you can be doing to her. Losing friends is one of the most painful things to go through in a girl's life. Trust me, I know. Just get to know her a little more. Like they said in Boy Meets World, "lose one friend, lose yourself."
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I think it's rude to "kick someone out" of a group because no one likes her. Give her another chance & if it doesn't work out, then tell her that things aren't working out with her & the group & suggest her to be friends with someone else.
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omg this is totaly weird because this is exactly whats going on with me. i just learned that you need to talk to your group of friends and figure out a nice way to tell her that you dont want to be like best friends with her or hang out with her anymore. its kinda hard to do without hurting her feelings but i had to do it too and it turned out great in the end.
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good luck!
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