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Probably the wrong category.. sorry.
I guess lately I've been having self esteem issues.
See, the begining of the year, I got really sick, with something almost like the chicken pox, it wasnt that though, it was something rare. It left deep scabs, and they left deep scars, on my back, legs, pretty much everywhere, including my face.
The face part is really what bothers me, I have deep scars, not really horribly deep. But its like an indent.
And whenever I see pictures of myself before that,
it makes me feel really ugly, in fact, I have looking at pictures of me before that, because I know I will never look like that again.
:(
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scars make us unique , and scars also heal over time. I speak personally. I had a heat rash that would form all over me. I looked like a leopard. It was embarassing. It would scab up then fall off leaving scars all over my shoulders back and arms. It bothered me, until a friend told me "it is a characteristic of who you are and your past." Dont cake it with makeup . Think of it this way. Some women get burned and half their face is a big scar. So it could be worse right. Remember that not every person sees things the same. Who knows maybe you will meet a guy with a scar fetish ;) Your beautiful no matter what, dont be ashamed of yourself anyone that judges you for it, is obviously a self loathing, self hating moron anyway.
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i watched the tyra banks show today and it showed how several women threw away their insecurities and flaws. not every one is perfect. there are 'gorgeous people' 'and people who look like 'a hot mess' dont think about what category you fit in, just love your self for who you are and every thing around you. be thankful for all that you have now (a face, sight, your health). Look in you mirror and point out all your flaws say it aloud and after you say them shout "So What!!"...thats what you are dealt with and move on. you might see some one who looks incredibly gorgeous to you but thats not you and you have to get over that somehow..some ppl cry and wish to look better then what they look like now but another way to get over it is telling your self that you are a beatiful person throughout your body...hope i helped:)
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