my girlfriend was over one time. and i asked her if she wanted to have sex and she said no. which i figured since shes waiting for marriage. then i decided i didnt care and i sat on her and forced her clothes off. shes really tiny and week she weighs like 91 and i weigh 156 so it wasnt hard. she tried to get me off of her but we both knew she couldnt. so my friend who was coming over to hang out with us came. and he held her down while i fingered her. she was screaming and telling me to stop but i didnt. then he sat on her and held her legs apart while i stuck my dick in her vagina. she was screaming and crying for us to stop she said it hurt.so my friend told me to punchh her so she will shutup so i did. i didnt mean to punch her that hard but she passed out. so i finished up and my friend left. and i just stared at her. i didnt mean to hurt her. i love her soo much. and i couldnt believe all the bruises all over her shoulders,legs,arms,colar bone and her face was dripping blood. so i got a towel and wiped it off. then when she woke up she couldnt move so i helped her get dressed and carried her home. i kept apoligizing but she didnt say anything to me. when i see her in school she looks scared and runs away from me. how cdo i get her to tlak to me thanks.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? christina answered Sunday May 13 2007, 8:40 pm: How fucking stupid could you possibly be? Not only did you rape your fucking girlfriend, but now you think that it's okay & you want her to talk to you? You're the fucking scum of the earth & she doesn't even have to get revenge on you. Karma will come around itself & fuck your life up just like you did to her life.
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You just gave her so many problems. She's never going to look at herself or men the same way. She's gonna go for assholes just like you because she's not gonna think she can do any better. Not only that, but she's never going to trust a single soul again. She's not gonna be able to talk to anyone, nor is she going to be able to look at another guy. If that's what you wanted, congratulations dickhead, you accomplished it.
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What you need to do is to stay away from her, & become a social outcast. Cut off all of your friends because they're idiots just like you, and then you need to burn yourself alive. I don't understand how the hell you rape your girlfriend & then claim you love her? You don't even know what love is & you never will. I honestly hopes she calls the cops on you if she hasn't already & I hope they put you in prison with the death sentence. I also hope they don't give you a last wish before they electricute you to nothing but dust.
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I hope everyone that is like you [this goes for murderers, serial killers, robbers, arsonists, etc] all die in something like a Holocaust. I can't believe you would do this to someone you claim you love. Also, when you're in prison, I hope you become some guys bitch. Then in turn, you should chop your dick off so you could never do this to another girl ever again, and if you ever thought about doing this to someone else, then somewhere out there, there's a nice guy waiting to beat your ass. You're scum, always remember that. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
Ashumms answered Friday May 11 2007, 5:26 pm: You have absolutely no right to talk to her you son of a bitch scumbag! What you did was rape. If she was smart, she would have gone to the police and filed a report. And just so you know, she still can. Instead of trying to get her to talk to you, maybe you should just go chop your dick off because that's what you deserve you filthy piece of shit. [ Ashumms's advice column | Ask Ashumms A Question ]
TheWallflower answered Thursday May 10 2007, 11:11 pm: I'm going to be an asshole here, mostly because you deserve it. and I suggest you keep reading what I have to say because it's something you need to hear, hopefully you'll learn something.
Well, first thing is first. You are a fucking idiot. It's amazing that you knocked her out, raped her, and the thing you worry about is how to get her to talk to YOU. That pretty much means that even after you did all that horrible shit to her, everything is still about YOU. Then again, I'm not surprised you're that much of a selfish prick considering that you did rape her. My point is, you're a selfish, self centered bastard
Second thing, don't expect her to talk to you. Don't even try to talk to her. Stay the fuck away from her. If you feel like you have an undying need to talk to her, and feel like you can't control yourself, which you probably can't, go up to her, tell her how sorry you are, AND BEFORE YOU CAN MAKE THE CONVERSATION ABOUT YOU, WALK AWAY. You've fucked her up pretty badly. You've probably fucked up her future to. Girls who have been raped are more likely to fuck up their lives by doing drugs or commit suicide. If they miracously don't turn to drugs, they'll at least have hardcore emotional problems. Depression, bipolar I or II, possibly even anorexia or bulimia. Congrajulations.
Oh yeah, did i mention you probably took her virginity? And when you say you didn't mean to hurt her, that's just a lie your conscious made up to help you deal with what you did. You did mean to hurt her, and you probably enjoyed it to.
Your friend is also an asshole for helping you if you really want redemption. Cut off all your friends, which is something you should do because I'm going to assume all your friends are horrible assholes because assholes tend to be friends with assholse, and one of your friends has already proven himself to be one of the worst out there. Then, go turn yourself in
But in reality, when it comes to a rapist, the concept of redemption is rare or completely non existant. Although you are asking for help here, the syntex of your question hints that you don't feel as guilty as you should, and that everything is stil about you. You are fucked up, seek therapy, and stay away from women. Also, don't reproduce for two reasons, we don't wnat your genes mixing with the rest of the human gene pool and rapists tend to fuck up their own children, who in turn fuck up other people and so on.
If you have any other questions about how to be a better person, send me a message. If you have a question about how to get her back, I'd recommend drinking 2 bottles of bleach and jumping off a very high bridge. [ TheWallflower's advice column | Ask TheWallflower A Question ]
modelkate11 answered Thursday May 10 2007, 8:58 pm: are you seriously asking this question? you raped her and she should have called the police. she might never talk to you again so you're just going to have do deal with that. you completely lost all of her respect for you. i seriously cant believe you could take advantage of your girlfriend like this. you should be in jail. [ modelkate11's advice column | Ask modelkate11 A Question ]
MSMWBTUA1718 answered Thursday May 10 2007, 8:53 pm: First of all what you did was completely unacceptable. how could you take advantage of her like that? you probably made her life very difficult and scary by doing this. What you should do is turn yourself in, you did something terrible, and you deserve to pay the price for it. its that simple. if you don't take my advice, then you'll spend the rest of your life with this inside you, and it'll never leave you. i guarantee that. [ MSMWBTUA1718's advice column | Ask MSMWBTUA1718 A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Thursday May 10 2007, 8:39 pm: Personally, I'm surprised that she hasn't called the police, and if she were to come on here I would suggest that she did.
I would suggest that you stop attempting to contact her. You have hurt her in a way beyond repair, and no amount of discussion will fix that. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
heyimcaro answered Thursday May 10 2007, 8:30 pm: WHAT THE HELL. YOU ARE FREAKING MESSED UP.
how in the world can you say that you love her when you just beat the hell out of her and didn't care about her decision to not hav sex at all. this story really makes me want to cry-- that is pathetic. how can you live with yourself! i hope your "girlfriend" never fucking talks to you again. your a moron. if i knew your name or anything about you, you better believe i would definitely report you to the police. this is rape, AND abuse on so many levels. that girl will be scarred for life because of what you did. your friend is a little dickhead, too.
schulte_686 answered Thursday May 10 2007, 8:02 pm: Oh my god guy you are ridiculas you should have respected her and not have done anything i wouldnt blame her is she broke up with you but then again she might be scared to break up with you because she will think you will hurt her or something GOD [ schulte_686's advice column | Ask schulte_686 A Question ]
basketcase_x08 answered Thursday May 10 2007, 7:46 pm: Yeah. buddy, thats called rape. Its a crime, She's going to be afraid of you, and will probably never want anything to do with you. Legally she could sue you, get a restraining order, have you arrested. Your friend too. You violated her space Big time. sorry but there's nothing you can do to get her back except respect boundries. Give her space, and dont go talking about it. [ basketcase_x08's advice column | Ask basketcase_x08 A Question ]
SoccerCutie15 answered Thursday May 10 2007, 7:39 pm: Most likely she wont talk to you.. because obviously she IS afraid of you now.. because basically what you did.. was rape her. and she is probably afraid that you WILL do that again. you lost ALOT of her trust. and it will probably be hard to gain it back. So it might take awhile for her to talk to you..worse comes to worse.. you break up because of this. My inbox is always open! =] [ SoccerCutie15's advice column | Ask SoccerCutie15 A Question ]
pacsunnnx3 answered Thursday May 10 2007, 7:37 pm: wow..
i think you should just leave her alone. she has a perfectly good reason to run away and be scared. you're lucky she didn't report you for raping and abusing her. if you really loved her "soo much" you wouldn't have done that. it's better for both of you if you stay away from her [ pacsunnnx3's advice column | Ask pacsunnnx3 A Question ]
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