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everyone seems to "screw me over"
This is going to be long but im going to try to make it short:
Ok this year i lost about FIVE "bestfriends" they all screwed me over and like i feel so upset and sad that like i treat them so equally and i would beat up anyone for them and basically i would be there for them. When i thought they could be there for me one by one they start to screw me over its just making me really sad and depressed that like you can be BESTFRIENDS with someone for OVER 5 YEARS and some less and then they just screw you over. How is that? Should i start talking to each of them? or should i just let them live there own life and keep them out of mine??
ughh itsss so sad i hate thiss
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I know how you fee, i've been through a similar situation so i can definitely help you. Always take this to consideration; GIRLS ARE MEAN. They always have been and always will be. Especially during preteen through teenage years. Friends, and even Best friends, aren't always who they seem to be. At one point in my life, i lost friends who truely honestly were my best friends. but they screwed me over for no reason. and it hurt a lot. after trying to be the bigger person and work things out, they never bother to care, and i realized that they aren't true friends anymore. i still had other best friends who cared about me, and i don't need to put up with friends who don't. You should talk to them if you want to, but if they don't care, then they aren't who you made them out to be. i'm sure you still have other best friends who care about you and they are the one's who are important. good luck!
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Really it depends on the degree of the betrayal could you add some details that tells exactly what eac person did? But if you feel that you could possibly forgive them and that you can talk through the situation with them and ensure that it wont happen again with them than give it a second try.
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i say move on for right now because freinds never fight but best freinds need time to fight fuss cheat hurt and then time to heal love and be there forever because me and mii freind fight all the time but now we've learnd how to deal mann right now were even going with the same dude and both cheating on him any other one of my freinds did that it would be a girl fight but with her i dont even care now but we dont fight because she taught me how not to feel pain and to stay strong thats why we have best freinds not plain and borin freinds
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