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Boyfriend..
Im 14/f and he is 15/m
Well, lately My boyfriend and i haven't had anything to talk about on the phone. It seems like we have drifted apart. We have been going out for 5 months and 9 days. I love him, but im not in love with him. He has a low self esteem and thats a major turn off for me. Just because me and him are so different. But, i dont know what happened? I mean this just started getting this way. And we fight constantly about the most stupid things ever. And every little thing he does annoys me like crazy. And he'll get mad over little stuff. And to be honest he acts like a girl. Always whining and getting upset about something. I dont want our relationship to end, but in a way i do. But for now since i am in doubt, i thought i would just get advice to see what people think about this. And i guess i kinda just dont want to hurt him anymore.
i dont know.. any advice would be nice =]
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Maybe you both should talk about your relationship. Consider a lot of things. Are you happy with this realtionship? Do you see this relationship going anywhere? Is it time to move on and meet new people? Are you able to continue these little fightsany longer? If you and him still want to be together, try to talk about improving your relationship, so both of you are happy. i hope everything works out for you!
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i was in this exact situation about a year ago. my guy whined and complained and acted like a little girl, it was pathetic. at first i didn't want to talk to him about it and wanted to try to work it out because it was almost prom and he had already paid for me. but a few days after that i talked to him and said that i didn't feel the same connection that we used to have. he agreed but said he still loved me which made it hard for me because i didn't really love him anymore. i ended it so he wouldn't be dragged along in a relationship that wasn't working. im not saying that you should end the relationship, deffinately talk to him first but in the end you might find that breaking up is better than being in a bad relationship. hope i helped, these situations are hard.
modelkate11
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okay well i think that you should talk to him about how you are feeling just like all the other people said. You sound like you are drifting apart and it can be fixed. You need to spend time alone together. are you guys ever alone?
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Talk to him about it. Most of your problems can possibly be fixed. But if you don't feel the same way about him from what you used to, then end it now or he'll really get hurt.
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talk to him about it.
if you guys have nothing to talk about, you guys are probably slowly drifting apart. people change. its part of life. and you and your bf are only 14 and 15..like i said, people change in that time.
if you don't want to split up with him, at least try talking to him about it. part of being in a relationship is being able to trust eachother.
hope i helped.
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