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im so mad but i dont wanna hate her
my friend ;amanda ;always makes plans with me & then ditches me last minute. and i never get to see her ;she lives 45 min. away i havent seen her in over a year. so i basically told her not to talk to me im so mad. i dont wanna hate her ;shes one of my best friends ;its just i cant keep wasting my weekends at home cuz she ditches me. what should i do?
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Make a plan to go over HER place one weekend. that way, she cant back down. make it early, so that she cant call and cancel. and spend some other weekends with other friends! you can be with other people. and whenever you make plans with her, make a back up plan to call sombody and hang out to watch a movie or somthing. xo
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Well, If I were you, I would tell Amanda straight up and say 'look, we are great friends but will you please stop wasting my weekends. You call me and say you want to hang out but you never show up'
Let her know how you feel.
If she says 'so what. you're not my life.' she isn't a real friend. Tell her 'I'm not trying to say that I should be your life but if we are true friends you wouldn't ditch me.'
Try not to get into an argument, try to talk calmly and clearly.
GOOD LUCK
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I think you can, either give her a taste of her own bitchy medicine and//o tell her and talk to her about it.
She sounds like the type of girl who wants people falling over her all the time....
ALSO;
you can stop making plans with her and wait for her to ask you to go out!
Hope I helped!
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You should make plans with her, and then ditch her last minutes. Give her a taste of her own medicine, and let her see how it feels. She won't like it at all.
Or, you could tell her to grow up & you'll be there waiting for her to call & meet you somewhere so you can actually hang out. And in the meantime, hang out with some of your other friends. Don't let your weekends/plans revolve around her cause your other friends might get pissed.
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