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shy & always needs a girlfriend.
13 female.
well,
i just started a new school wednesday. it's really great and i made a lot of new friends and i'm actually getting pretty popular there.
well, there is this guy [lets say his name is] jimmy. kay so jimmy hands a note to my friend lynn telling her to give it to me. so we pass in the hallway and she gives it to me saying "it's from a boy. hehe." so i'm like "okay?"
so, i open it and it says "hey, i'm jimmy. you are really cute, i'm the tall guy with brown curly hair."
well, jimmy is pretty good looking and really popular, but all my friends say that he always goes for the new girls and always has to have a girlfriend. so that was a turn off.
AND on top of that, he hasn't talked to me at ALL. and all my friends have talked to him and he's like "yeah i really really like her, i wanna ask her out" and stuff like that.
so,
my question is, is he worth my time? he doesn't even talk to me and based on what my friends say, he sounds like a jerk.
what do you think?
thanks. :]
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well I had something similar to this happening to me. My advice to you would be to start talking to him and get to know him before you give him an answer to whether or not you will go out with him. That way you know(or..know alittle better) that he likes you for your personality to, and not just your looks and the fact that you are the "new girl"
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Well, as for me. I don't think you should waste your time on him. I mean, he dosen't even have the guts to talk to you about it. How is he going to ask you out when he barley even knows you. Try to get to know him a little better. If you start to like him, then date him. But don't just go for looks. Because, you could end up hating his personality and not wanting to be in a relationship with him. And if he still likes you for you when you all get to know eachother then it sounds good to me. :)
Hope I have helped. :)
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Well, if you haven't talked to the guy, you can't go on what your friends say and judge him right than and there. He does, however, seem attracted only because you're new and pretty.
So what I'd suggest is, hang out with him before you actually agree to be his gf...jsut to make sure you know who you're going to be dealing with.
Just ask him casually if he wants to hang out with you and your friends one night and blah blah and see if you like him or not and make your decision on that.
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