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I'm not really sure what I'm asking but I just feel like I need help or something so if you have an opion or w.e answer lol i will rate for any attemps though!
Well I think I like this guy I met about a week ago, last friday. Hes friends with my BFF, thats how I met him. And I had fun with him at the mall/movies when we first met. Then Saturday me and my BFF hung out again and we called him and just talked to him. Later that day he called us back on my cell and him and I talked for awhile about making my BFF go to Jack in the Box so me, my bff, him and his friends could hang out. She didn't go. So I had my dad drive me to a school that was by his house and him, his friends and i hung out for awhile. Then this Friday I called to see if he wanted to hang out (1/2 day) and he said he couldn't cause he was going bowling but wasn't sure when. So then about a min. later he said he had to go. And I wrote on his FB but he never wrote me back and has been on his account. And he doens't get online at all anymore. And I'm just soo confused if i really like him, if i have a chance, if he likes me, how to flirt or call him without him really noticing anything weird. errr i don't i'm just so confused.
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Usually, when guys do that..it means they lost interest. & just like the girl below me said, its not your fault. If he doesn't see how great you are, then pshh screw him. & maybe he does still have interest in you, but is too shy & doesn't have his feelings straight. I've actually felt that way before, & avoided boys. Give him some time, & if he doesn't really ever call you or talk to you again.. then it wasn't meant to be.
About you saying if you really like him, you may have just liked the experience of maybe getting a boyfriend [or another one, whateverr.] You know what I mean?
I think you still may have a small chance. Like.. 20% chance.. ok, that doesn't sound like it looks good, but hey.. its still a chance. & its not like you did anything, so it really would have nothing to do with you.. so if he didn't end up feeling the same way, then so what. haha, as long as i know it had nothing to do with me doing something wrong, then its not really a big deal. So, if I were you I wouldn't think it is either.
Don't call him or anything, let him call you & stuff. Play hard to get. You don't want to make yourself like easy type thing.
Anyways, I hope it works out.. byeee. (:
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It sounds like you initially interested him, and then he changed his mind. This doesn't mean that you did anything wrong; he has just decided he's really "not that into you" but he doesn't have the courage to let you know, so he's ignoring all of your attempts to contact him. In a way, he really has done you a favor, because you might have really fallen in love with him before he pulled his disappearing act.
I could certainly be wrong about this, but try to look at the situation from an objective viewpoint--that is, as if it were someone else's problem. After the phone call, you made a few overtures that he didn't respond to, so I would suggest that you just let go and find someone who really appreciates your special qualities. Remember: it wasn't "your fault" that no relationship developed. Really! Love, gigi
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Chillax my dear. This question always works:
Would you kiss him or hug him? Haha if you wanna kiss him, you like him like a bf way. If you want to hug him, you hold him dear like a friend.
And if you said kiss...then flirt with him. But wait, ask your friend if she likes him in anyway because you don't want to interfere in any way...
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