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Pool Party
A girl I know, but I'm not really good friends with, is having a pool party. She invited 3 boys, and I don't know any of them. I wouldn't care if they were there if it was just a regular party, and I have a boyfriend, so I'm not worried about any of that dating stuff. What I'm worried about is, that I hate how I look in my bikini. It's the only bathign suit I have, and I don't really want guys to see me in it. Especially when half the girls at the party, are anorexic bitches. I think it'd be rude if I didn't go, and I don't know what to do.
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You should go! who cares what the guys tink, they`re all asswholes anyways. if your having fun then no one will say anyhting about it. bikini`s are fun! and shows how your not affraid of that people think.
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you know what you should just go to that party and wear your bikini who cares if guys are there and see you in your bikini, and try to be more confident and realize your gonna be the only girl there with some meat on your bones unlike them anorexic bitches that prob have their bathing suit hanging off of them but say to yourself that theres nothing wrong with the way you look in your bikini but.. when you go make sure you have a hell of a time :)
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Well I doubt your ugly if you have a boyfriend so get some confidence girl.
If you truly do not want to wear it then you could impervise. You could wear board shorts if you dont like from your waist down. If its your stomach then just wear a wife beater and nothing on the bottom. It its both then just wear both of those with your bathing suit under.
Or if you have time and money, get a new bathing suit that flatters the type of body you have. If you need ideas on that then just send one to my inbox.
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an easy answer is just to go out and buy a new baithing suit before the party, like a tankini. its like a tanktop...if you didnt know. but its a baithing suit.
but if you cant, then just dont care what the others think. most likley if the partys fun they wont be like "omg shes so gross in her baithing suit" because i mean most people dont do that..
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Haha 'anorexic bitches' that cracked me up, because there are so many people like that where I live. Anyway, if you don't want to be seen by the guys in your swimsuit, try staying in the water most of the time. Or just leave a towel on the side of the pool, and when you get out, it'll be right there for you. Most importantly though, forget what the other people think. I know it's hard, no one likes to look bad in front of other people, but hey, you have a boyfriend, you're doing fine. Just go & have fun. :]
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You seem uncertain with your self image around boys and also exposing parts of your body.
You need to be bold and confident. Know that everyone comes in different shapes and sizes and we're all different. Don't let those girls with unrealistic bodies discourage you from wearing a bikini and having fun. You're gorgeous in your own way so be confident.
Don't ever become annorexic or bulimic or go on crash diets because it can hurt your body long term and short term
Bring your boyfriend with you, wear you bikini, be confident and bold, and have fun.
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In addition to what Julesianne said, because who cares about what *other* guys think? You boyfriend obviously doesn't think anything wrong about your body.
But if you really don't want to wear the bikini, go in shorts and a tank top. Just say you don't feel like getting in the water. Most people won't actually be in the water most of the time anyways. Wear your swim suit under the shorts and tank just in case you feel like taking your clothes off later (like if you see you have nothing to be worried about :D).
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hey, well you should buy a different bathing suit that you feel more comfortable in. like instead of a bikini try a tankini. explain to your mom that you dont feel comfortable in your bikini and want a new one.
-caitt♥
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youre not alone in this situation. a lot of girls feel uncomfortable in a bathing suit in front of people.. especially guys. we all have things were selfconscious about..but the trick is to not let anyone know youre self conscious. youre beautiful. and you have a boyfriend already so it doesnt matter what anyone thinks of you. go to the party and just be yourself and have fun and dont even think about how you look because if you dont pay attention to it.. nobody else will. theyll be jealous of how outgoing and confident you are :-) good luck and just be yourself.
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