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summer fling or something more?
16/f
alright over the summer i met this guy. hes one of my best friends cousins and we hit it off so well. i really like him and he really likes me. were together but then were not officially going out. he lives like 20 minutes away from me and he doesnt have a car or phone so its kind of hard to talk to him. like he goes over his friends house and either calls me or gets online and talks to me. or his sister has a cell and he calls me but his sister isnt always home. the big problem is that school is coming up and so is sports. ill NEVER be able to see him or talk to him and everything will just be over. i dont want it to be one of those summer flings. i really really care for him and i know he does for me too. i lost my virginity to this kid and in about 2 weeks soccer starts for him and he has it EVERYDAY...and its not like i can get a ride to go see him play or anything..and once school comes up everything is just gonna be over and i dont know what to do.. i wanted to cry last night when he told me that soccer is going to be starting up and its everyday. ive never felt like this about any other guy..hes one of a kind. he's nice, sweet, cute, athletic, funny and i just feel safe when im with him. is there anything i can do to make the situation any better?
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Dear Sixteen year old female,
Losing your virginity at any age is a very big deal. Obviously you want to stay emotionally and physically connected to someone that shared such a life event with you. The situation is that in reality, you will get over the emotional ties that now bind you to this person that you just met this summer. I truly hope that you are aware of the seriousness and increasing rate of sexual diseases among teens. You can become pregnant from just one sexual experience, also. If you have used protection and not become infected with a disease or become pregnant, then count yourself lucky this time. At sixteen you are just beginning your life as a young woman and you want to be able to look forward to many great things in your lifetime. The strong feelings you have now about this person will have passed sooner, had you not had sex with him. Scientists have proven that women in particular feel emotionally bonded more than men after having sex. The guy or "kid" as you accurately described him, will likely forget you before you let loose of your feelings for him. Do yourself a favor and take some time to get checked out for sexually transmitted diseases, and get some form of birth control started if you plan on continuing to be sexually active. Maybe before your next "boyfriend" comes along, you will take the time to ask yourself if you want to go through the risks and potential heartbreak all over again. If it is not worth it, then wait. You are worth waiting for!
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i kinda have the same problem.but we are about ten minutes apart.and something that helps us is not being on the phone all nite or for a long time.because once you find out everything about each other, you wont have anything to talk about.when ever he has a soccer game go and see it. bring some friends so you wont be so bored on the side lines all by your self (i do the same for his hockey games!)try meeting up at the movies or at the mall or a coffee shop. (just dont go only to the movies...he will only concentrate on getting in your pants) and thats really all i can sayy.
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