This girl wants to know about my...man thing...which isn't exactly big. I am wondering if I should let her see it since she knows my cousin and girls talk
You seem to be uncomfortable with showing your thing because you're not ready and/or because it's not as big as you wish it to be.
I don't think you should be showing girls that wants to see when you're uncomfortable. Save it for the moment when you feel ready and if the girl doesn't respect that, she's not worth it. [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
Elcee answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 2:33 pm: I would give the same answer to you as I would to a girl who had asked a similar question.
You are obviously uncomfortable with showing your penis to this girl and therefore I would say don't do it. I guess you are still quite young and you sound very insecure about yourself because of your age.
Size is not everything and when a penis is flaccid it is not big at all. She is obviously curious about the male body but she has no right to ask you to bare yours. Girls do talk amongst themselves in the same way guys do, but always remember that what is hot gossip one minute is yesterdays cold news.
Tell her that you have no intentions of showing yourself to her and you have absolutely no reason to care what she or her friends think. I hope that my answer helps you decide. Good luck. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
zoevalo answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 2:27 pm: well it depends. are you in a relationship with this girl?
you should trust her and it should be fine. people should accept the way that you are. you should not feel ashamed by things like this.
if you are in a relationship with this girl and if she makes a stupid comment then she obviously isnt worth it.
im sorry to say that yes there are some people out there who will make comments but some times you have to make sacrafises to get the anwsers you need. if she likes you for you then she wont say any thing and will like the way you are.
so if you feel comfortable with taking the rist then yes go for it.
i wish you luck. but im sure you wont need it :)
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