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I really like this girl but am to afrain to ask her out or talk to her from fear of rejection. I really like her and want a relationship but i dunno what to do. Any advice?
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if you dont even try talking to her then youll never know! just approach her and talk. you dont have to ask her out right off the bat. make a point to get to know her. find out what she likes, what shes interested in, what you 2 have in common. that should build the ground for a solid relationship. show her that you are interested in getting to know her. once your comfortable around her it will be easier to ask her out. do it in a casual way, something like hanging out at the mall or the park or something. tell her your going and you think it would be cool if you 2 could go and hang out. good luck and dont be scared!
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Well, if you don't ask her out, nothing happens. If you ask her out and she says no, nothing happens. So there's really nothing to worry about. BUT, if you DO ask her out and she says YES.. then you got yourself a girlfriend there. You can't always be worried of rejection ; there's always those words: "what if?". So talk to her a bit, ask her questions about herself to show you're interested, and try and flirt a little and see what happens. And then after awhile of getting to know her better, ask her to hang out with you at the movies sometime or somewhere. I hope I helped. <3
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Let's analyze the situation:
You're not going out with her. & haven't asked her out.
You COULD ask her out & what's the worst thing she could do? Say no. Which would only leave you in the same situation if you hadn't asked her.
Bascially, you can only move up in your situation. So ask her out & get over the fear of rejection. You can't be afraid of it forever; you'll have to face it sooner or later.
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I think you should ask her out. Believe me, not all girls are obvious when they like someone. So, even if you don't think she likes you, she actually might. You never know until you ask.
The worst she can do is say no. If she says yes, great! You have your girlfriend. If she says no, you know how she feels and you can move on.
Anyway, one day, when it's just the two of you, you could go up to her and simply ask, "Hey, ______ (her name), do you want to go out with me?" or you could even ask her something like, "Hey, what are you doing this Friday? I know this great movie that came out and I was wondering if you wanted to go with me."
I really do think that you should ask her out. Love, or even like, isn't meant to be kept to yourself.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders
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Well you can't stand on the sidelines forever. Just talk to her every now and then, become friends, and then after awhile ask her out to a movie or something. For the talking part see if there are pictures in her locker, or binder, and ask about them. Or ask her a question about schoolwork. Don't be afraid of rejection, because if a person knows you (and I don't personally mean you) then they don't won't their friend to feel bad.
Hope I helped.
~~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~
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Just talk to her, she may like you so take a chance and go with the follow!
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Dont think so negative, she could say yes too not just no so stop thinking your going to get rejected. You need confidence. My advice would be start talking to her more and more and become friends, make her laugh, etc. Then it should be pretty comfortable to talk to her. If you still dont want to ask her face to face you could ask on the phone, but whatever you do, DO NOT do the asking over myspace, aim, email thing. Its cheesy and doesnt make girls feel special so phone would probably be the best besides in person. Good luck!
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Ok if you like her then what you could do is start writing her secret admireer letter or something and then start hinting who you are and that you like her then maybe if she does like you she will ask you out or whatever now just remember that everyone gets shy sometime girls are shy guys are shy so if she does like you but wont ask you out you might have to do it and if the secret admirerer thing doesnt work you could just have a friend ask if she likes you or have a friend ask if she likes you or something and then if she does you wont have to be afraid of asking her out so if i was any help to you at all please tell anyone who has questions or if you ever have anymore questions i can answer cause i know what your going through cause i've been through it before and i've been through alot so i relate to alot of questions and i'm sorry if i wasnt any help goodluck
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Everybody has or will be rejected at least once in their lifetime, but you just have to suck it up and take the risk. Just think if you never ask her out or find out if she likes you then you ewill never be able to go back and all you can do is wonder.
Jess
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you know what if yu fear of rejection do it over the phone or even and e-mail or note so you don't get rejected in front of your face. but the thing ou have to lear is that if you say it ask and you get rejected be like ok don't act like yo care because if you show that girl your strong she might just like you and maybe she migt like you too you neer know! hope that helps =)
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Tell her your true feelings.
Rejection is just a tough process you'll have to endure should this happen.
If you don't tell her your feelings, then you'll find yourself going around a loop.
In case of rejection, remember that she is not the ONLY girl in the world!!!
And who knows? She might have same feelings about you!!!!
P.S. Before you ask her out, just make sure that she and you have a well-established relationship as just friends. (i.e. she knows you quite well, and vice versa)
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You guys should first become friends. That makes it so much easier to talk with her if/when you do go out. It's seriously no fun going out with a guy you met yesterday for 2 hrs and didnt really talk to much (at least in high school)...
Then once you become comfortable with her, don't be afraid to ask her out (especially if you guys flirt with each other).
Good luck!
And what's the worst thing she can do?? Say no.
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okay i think that you should first become friends and get to know her so you will be comfertable around her. like i really like this guy at school and instead of just having a quick relationship we are friends. or just im her and tell her i like you like you but i understand if you just want to be friends.
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Look,so you dont get depressed if she says no,just go in and ask her and bare in mind 90 percent shes going to say no and if she says no then you can just go find another girl.Dont be all like shes going to say yes because if she DOESNT then youll get depressed.So take it as a dare and go ask her.You have nothing to lose anyway.
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if you like the girl then ask her how will you know how it will turn out if you dont try ive been in your position many times but i stared fear in the eye and said ha face your fear you may not be very good at asking but you at least need to try or youll spend the rest of your life not knowing how it would have been and as for your fear of rejection its normal noone likes to be rejected but eventualy they move on and find the right one
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well first try to get her to notice you. Smile at her or fix your hair in front of her. She'll get the picture that you like her. Dont just stare at her, she'll think she has something stuck in her teeth or you're staring at somebody else. Dont ask her out until you are actually friends with her. You can start talking with her about something simple. For example, in school ask her what the homework was. Just start a small conversation with her. Compliment her. You will see if she likes you by the way she reacts. If she rolls her eyes and gives a big sigh, that probably will mean she doesnt like you and you should back off. but if she kinda giggles and looks down, thats a different thing.
I hope I helped and all goes well!
-volleyball2150
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