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i have incredable endurance but my girlfriend can't keep up.
Over the years I've trained my body to withstand pleasure and concentrate on something else. Now when me and my girlfriend have sex, it lasts for hours, is this normal? One night we went for four hours straight using no pills no attatchments and none of any of those other lovely toys. Is it a bad thing that this lasts this long? How long should it last? Usually I just go until she's completely exhausted and it still feels like I can get up and run a marathon as if nothing had happened. I think there's something wrong with me. Please, if anyone knows how I can fix this tell me. Thanx o^.^o
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theres nothinq wrong w that
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There is nothing wrong with you. My boyfriend tends to be the same with me. You just have tons of self control. Depending on his mood, my boyfriend can get off as fast as 5 minutes and keep going as long as 6 or 7 hours.
It's only a problem if you can't help getting off or you can't get off at all.
If nothing else besides your endurance is a problem, then your fine, ♥
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Also train yourself to accept pleasure.
In any scenario where you have one answer, one way of responding, despite the situation, eventually there will be a problem because the answer doesn't fit the optimum response to the current situation.
Try to make love differently each time.
Use lots of lube, especially if it starts to get dry, painful, or uninteresting for your partner.
And note that i say make love, not just run an endurance race. Sometimes men have odd notions that being big, having sex for a long time, or fast-fucking, or other displays of strength and masculinity are huge turnons for a woman. Often that is not what will turn her on the most.
Find what turns her on. Vary your lovemaking style. Don't worry about orgasming - that'll happen when the time is right.
Luyah
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aw trust me thats nothing you need to worry about. thats actually a good thing. usually guys don't last very long in bed. for my boyfriend it's very difficult.. & it gets frustrating that he can't last long enough for me to get an orgasm.. so your girlfriend is very lucky.. and no there is nothing wrong with you :D
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Teach me. You are abnormal, but shit, it's in a good way. If you really want to curtail the sex, don't beat off for awhile. You'll come quicker.
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My friend Eric used to be able to do that. When him and his current girlfriend used to have sex he could go for fuckin` days if he wanted. So I agree, try jacking off a couple times a day and learn to control it to where you can get off on comand.
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One of my friends was into all that tantric stuff after he watched American Pie and could go on ages without letting go. It never became a problem for him because he also knew how to let go whenever he wanted.
He recommends taking a porno mag and jacking off eight times a day until you uncondition yourself.
You could try that, or maybe when you're having sex, think about your girlfriend and how good it feels until you get off.
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