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Okay.....everyday when i get home from school i wanna go on aim for free.Yesterday it worked on aim.com but today its not.I really want to go on aim.Can someone please tell me how i can go on aim?I really appreciate the help? (link)
If you mean you want to go on AIM without downloading it, here's the link: http://www.aim.com/aimexpress.adp



I moved in with my cousin after I graduated high school and I lived with for about 7 monthis and for those 7 months my autistic cousin her son followed me around everywhere I couldn't even use the bathroom or take a bath without him beating on the bathroom door telling me to get out and that I needed to be around him.I could't even talk to my mom on the phone without him trying to talk to me and my cousin didn't do anything about it and when I tied to go talk to her about it she got mad at me so I moved out and then when I moved out she dosn't want to have anything to do with me anymore becouse I didn't let her son follow me around everywhere and now when I go to my aunts house her mom everytime I go to watch t.v my aunt tells me to go be in there with my autistic cousin becouse that's the only reason they want me there is to keep him from pitching fits what should I do? (link)
It sounds to me like you need to sit you aunt, and your cousin down and explain to them that you understand her son seems to have some sort of attachment to you, but that doesn't mean that your his babysitter. As his mother, she should be stepping up and taking care of her own son, it's not your job. I know autistic children are hard to reason with, but she can't expect you to take on her responsibilities, and your aunt only bringing you over there to stop his fits isn't right either. Let them know how you feel about the situation, tell them you aren't going to come around just to keep her child quiet. He isn't your son, don't let them push him onto you. Maybe you could even find someone else inside the family who sees this the way you do, and bring them with you. It may help to have another person backing you up, you know? Like, your mom, or a sibling, or another cousin. Good luck, and I hope everything works out for you. If you need anymore suggestions, feel free to message me/email/IM me.

Again, I hope everything works out.


ive always wondered the specific locations that the movie tuck everlasting with alexis bledel and jonathon jackson were. ive heard they were in maryland and pennsylvania? but i dont know for sure. where they were looked BEAUTIFUL, and i would love to visit. . especially the waterfall! please if you know any exact locations of any of the scenes they filmed in the movie .. let me know! thanks :) (link)
The locations in that movie were beautiful your right. :)

But, according to IMDB, I believe most of the movie was filmed in Maryland. :)Here's the link to where IMDB says the filming took place: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0283084/locations


Hi i'm 16 and i have had sex almost a year ago and i have lied to my mother she has no clue when i go to the doctor i lie about it ya i know its bad but just recently i had sex with a guy who was 18 he then got a gf the next day and told me that he was just using me because he was lonley and wanted someone and since he is 18 and he kind of tricked me into doing it with him because that day i had no intention in doing it with him is it rape should i tell my mom he doesn't speak to me at all anymore he ignores me what should i do (link)
It wasn't rape if he "tricked" you. Just like the person before has said. So, telling your mom he raped wouldn't be right, it would be causing a lot of trouble over something that was consensual. Just because he isn't speaking to you anymore and your angry, doesn't deem what happened as rape. You may not have the intention of having sex with him the day you did, but it happened, people have sex all the time without 'planning' to do it.

But, lying to your doctor isn't smart either, you should tell him/her. As your doctor they need to know what's going on. I suggest next time you go you let them know.



I went yesterday for my 2nd ultrasound. According to my first ultrasound and my doctors
measurements I will be 38 weeks tomorrow. The lady that done the ultrasound told me that
I was going to be 36 weeks instead. The babies head measure is 36 weeks and her tummy
measures 38 weeks. Weight around 6lbs 11oz. Do you have any idea as to what might be
going on and if I should be 38 weeks tomorrow? Is it normal for a baby to measure like that? Thanks Bunches (link)
It's perfectly normal, if there was anything at all to worry about the nurse, or doctor would have brought it to your attention. Everything should be fine, and congrats on the babygirl. :)



What are the symptoms for Thrush? (link)
Here you go: http://www.webmd.com/oral-health/tc/thrush-symptoms


So it's been48 hours after I stupidly had unprotected sex. He pulled out before but I'm not sure that nothing got inside of me.I would simply take the morning after pill but I am on penicillin and I have heard it will cancel out the pill.what should I do???? Please please help. (link)
Eep, your cutting it close waiting this long. The morning after pill is only good if it's taken within 72 hours, and every 24 that passes it is less likely to work. Go to your local health clinic, or primary physician if you can get in soon enough, and tell them what's going on. They'll prescribe you the morning after pill, or if your 18 or older, you can just go to the pharmacy and tell the pharmacist you want the 'Plan B' pill. I know that anti-biotics can cancel out birth control pills, however they don't interact with the effects of Plan B. So your safe there, taking penicillin won't interfere if you take Plan B. I hope everything works out for you. Good Luck.


18/f/canada.

I sleep in everyday, I never do laundry, I never do anything, I never cook, I never answer phone calls, I dont know what to do anymore. I feel like Ive given up on everything. I KNOW my life would be much better if I could make myself do these things, but I just cant. It wasnt like this before. Ive tried everything but nothing works. I dont want to hear 'it will get better.' Ive been waiting for too long. Help. (link)
It sounds like your depressed, but don't seem to know why. You sound like you KNOW somethings wrong, and want to fix it. Which is great, most people who are depressed go through denial, and say there's nothing wrong, but you know there is. You should go see a doctor, it doesn't have to be a psychologist, a normal primary physician can help you. If you don't have one, just go to your local health clinic, and explain to them what's going on, what your feeling, and they'll help you. They'll figure out if some kind of medication is right for you, or whatever it is that you may need. Not everyone needs medication, but if that's what you need, they'll prescribe whichever one is best for you. Good luck, and I hope you get the help your looking for.


so the other day, i had my period but it was almost over .. soo my boyfriend was at my house and i didnt tell him i had my period .. but i diddnt worry cuz it was the last day. soo we started fooling around and my flow started getting really heavy and he was eating me out and all of a sudden he looked at me and there was blood all over his mouth!!!!!!! now he cant even look at me in the eyes. i dont know what to do! please help me! (link)
OH boy, haha. I can understand why he's upset, it was sort of inconsiderate of you to let him go down on you knowing you were still on your period, even if it was your last day, and you were light. You still should have told him, and stopped him before things got that far. All I can think of is to give him a few days to calm down, and then try talking to him. There isn't much you can say except your sorry. And, as far as giving him time, I'd give him at least 2-3 days. I'm sure it's safe to assume he's pretty mad, and as you said, he thinks your gross? Maybe not so much YOU though, he probably is just disgusted at what was in his mouth. So, just give him a few days, and then try talking to him. Hope I helped you some. Good luck sweetie.


a girl i know had a Twilight shirt today. the front had the Cullen family crest and then it said cullen at the bottom and the back had a number on it. It was a baseball-style shirt. and the sleves were blue. i looked on the twilightteez website but i couldn't find it. does anyone know where to get this shirt? (link)
I don't know if any of these are it, but I found these by typing 'Twilight Baseball Shirts' into Google: http://shop.cafepress.com/twilight-baseball?fp=337749242


What is this 'Team Alex' thing?! I hear and see it everywhere, mainly on youtube. You can type Team Alex into youtube and they're will be hundreds of people talk about loving him.. and missing him. WHAT? I don't understand. All I figured out is that his name is Alex Mendoza, if that helps.. (link)
I don't know much about him, but I do know that he used to be on a soap opera, so it could have something to do with him not being on it anymore? That's really just a guess though.


Hey people. So I don't know if anyone remembers but there was a show in 2007 called Hidden Palms. I know there's never going to be a season 2 but I was just wondering if anyone knows if I can buy season 1 on dvd somewhere? I've already looked at amazon and best buy, and came up with nothing. so if anyone knows if or where i can buy it that would be awesome! thanks!! (link)
I don't know the show, but I found it on Wikipedia, and it says that there are no plans to release it on DVD. See here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hidden_Palms

Buttt, I did find this for you! :)
All eight episodes: http://www.tv-video.net/video/hiddenpalms/

I hope those videos work, if not, just let me know, and I'll get you the other links I found.


I have a TMobile SidekickID and my inbox only holds 100 messages (50 sent and 50 received, more or less) and it's full. It's been an important conversation and I'd like to keep it for reference, so how would I do that? I think I can save messages to my sim card, but I don't know what that means.
Help? (link)
If you can save messages to your SIM card, you can do that, and your SIM card is the card that if you were to say, switch phones, you would take the SIM card out to do so. Your SIM card holds your contacts, and is what your T-Mobile Account is attached to, really. Or, if you don't want to do that since you don't really seem to know what it is exactly, you can always go to the messages, and forward them to an email address you have. It would be a bit time consuming, but if you really want them, that's an option you have.

Good luck.


Lately, I've had no energy. It's not because of lack of sleep, I've been getting at least 8 hours. I'm actually not sure what it's from. I'm afraid that when school starts (August 28th), I'm not going to be able to wake up (at 5) and have enough energy to go about the day.

I drink coffee on the occasion-only when i'm REALLY tired. Please help! (link)
If your getting more than 8 hours of sleep, it could be that your getting too much. Try not to get anymore than 8 hours of sleep, and after a few nights you should start to feel a little better, if not you can go see your doctor before school starts and let him know that your exhausted physically, and don't know why. Hopefully he can help you out.



What else Free Online Website Builder/Maker where I can make 2 or more website/s with just one user name like weebly?

Answer as many as you can

Tnx. (link)
Last time I remember, http://members.freewebs.com/ , that site was free.

I don't know about the two names things, I don't really see what you mean. I've never heard of anywhere that allowed you to use the same user name for two accounts.


i found my old toy chest (actually, it's been sitting in my room for the last few years and i never bothered to clean it out!) and i just cleaned it out. it doesn't look like a toy chest so i can keep it in my room still.

it has no drawers obviously; it's just a big open box except the top doesn't open all the way even when you push it (it's the type where you push up the top -- it never comes off fully). i wanted to know... how can i store stuff in it? like should i buy bins? it's pretty shallow but reasonably wide, so idk how that helps. i can't put drawers in it... i honestly don't have a big storage problem but i was just curious. i put it at the end of my bed, and i DO NOT want to store clothes in it. any ideas of how i can organize it? (link)
You could store blankets/sheets/pillows in it. You know, bedding stuff. Or even like, you can put your seasonal clothes in it. Like, since it's summer now, you could put your winter clothes in it, and then change them out once winter hits. I know you said you don't want your clothes in it, but that's an idea that will give you more space in your closet/dresser.

Hope I helped. :]


I have a Casio Exilim Digital (7.2 MP) camera, and an HP Pavilion vx74 computer. I was just wondering where I could find my sound files that I've recorded and uploaded onto the computer. THeyr'e not videos, strictly audio, but I can't find them under "My Music" Or anything. Help? (link)
They should be wherever your files go when you upload them onto you computer. :]


15/f~~~~
Now, I'm not trying to stereotype here so please don't assume that.
But, I was just wondering:
Would a teenage guy's friends really make fun of him if he was in love with his girlfriend? What I mean is, would his friends mock him for being in love?
I just seem to see it all the time in the media. And yes, I know, you shouldn't believe all that the media tells you. I just wanted to know really if this happens.
Sorry if this is a dumb question. I'm just curious that's all.
And I'd really like to hear from a guy. That's who I'm directing this question to. I don't think it would help much if a girl answered...
Thanks! (link)
Some guys do have really immature friends, that do unfortunately act like total jackasses when they see friends of theirs showing any kind of emotion. Because as guys they're brought up to think that showing emotions, shows weakness. But, some guys actually don't make fun of other guys for being in love or showing emotions, it just all depends on the people.


does best buy sell straighteners?


(Conair - Infiniti Nano Tourmaline Ceramic Hair Straightener - White) (link)
Yeah, they do online actually, I'm not so sure about in store, but most of the time you can have something you buy online shipped to the store.

Here's the link:
http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage.jsp?skuId=8612441&st=straightener&lp=1&type=product&cp=1&id=1192233348655


what does it mean when makeup does testss on animals



is it a good or bad thing

and why
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When some says they test makeup on animals, they mean they LITERALLY put it on the animals, to see if there are any rashes, or side effects of the products in the make-up. It's a horrible things to do because there ARE ways of testing makeup without putting it on animals, they're completely defensive, and it's a cruel thing to do. Most of the time it's even harmful to the animals. Some of they're testing is even to put the animals through pain, and distress.

You can easily google the topic and it will provide you with endless articles, websites, and groups against animal testing.




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