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how do i get my boyfriend not to think im gross?


Question Posted Friday January 16 2009, 5:42 pm

so the other day, i had my period but it was almost over .. soo my boyfriend was at my house and i didnt tell him i had my period .. but i diddnt worry cuz it was the last day. soo we started fooling around and my flow started getting really heavy and he was eating me out and all of a sudden he looked at me and there was blood all over his mouth!!!!!!! now he cant even look at me in the eyes. i dont know what to do! please help me!

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thelaura answered Saturday January 17 2009, 8:48 am:
Even if it was the last day, there's still blood, so you should have had the decency to tell him.
Is he angry? Embarrassed? Both?
Tell him you thought your period was over and you're sorry - it's all you can do, really.
Hopefully he will understand and put it past him, so you two can carry on your relationship as normal.
and next time, just wait until your period is fully finished!

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ohsnapxxiloveyou answered Saturday January 17 2009, 1:14 am:
OH boy, haha. I can understand why he's upset, it was sort of inconsiderate of you to let him go down on you knowing you were still on your period, even if it was your last day, and you were light. You still should have told him, and stopped him before things got that far. All I can think of is to give him a few days to calm down, and then try talking to him. There isn't much you can say except your sorry. And, as far as giving him time, I'd give him at least 2-3 days. I'm sure it's safe to assume he's pretty mad, and as you said, he thinks your gross? Maybe not so much YOU though, he probably is just disgusted at what was in his mouth. So, just give him a few days, and then try talking to him. Hope I helped you some. Good luck sweetie. <3

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AskShay answered Friday January 16 2009, 11:48 pm:
that's an big no.no you should have told him your girlfriend was visting now he is man because you did not say something or tried to stop him give him some time to forget and then tell himyou are sorry for not telling him and you thought your girlfriend was gone, and next time wait 2 days before plessure.
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