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muslim friend
so i have this really reallly cool friend! i just met her and she is the most helpful person i've ever known! she is so nice and sometimes it makes me feel that i am not doing right by her as a friend... she is a veiled muslim girl and she is quite religious. he fiance is pretty strict too but he likes me so he doesn't mine me being her friend... the other day i was in soooo much life or death trouble and she called him and they both helped me out of it! i mean really out of it so i don't know what to do to repay them! i want to get her something really really thoughtful.. but i don't know what... i don't mind spending cash on it so i don't care if it is a big thing... the problem is i don't know what! i was thinking maybe a nice dinner at a place for the two of them... but i don't know if it is ok for her to go out with him yet... and they don;t seem to me like the type that like going to fancy restaurants.. so i don't want to look like an obnoxious idiot... they are down to earth... what should i do???
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Down to Earth people still do like to go to fancy restaurants. I know I do! I don't think you should ask them how you can repay them because they will just tell you nothing, and not to. Why don't you ask her (casually) where her favorite place to go to dinner is? Remember, it's the thought that counts.
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The best thing for you to do is tell them you would like to thank them both and ASK them what they would like as repayment! It shouldnt come down to their race or religion how you repay them! But the safest way is to just ask :)
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