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ugh friend-guy problem.
okay so my friend goes out with this guy and well he has a friend who's cute.I hung out with them like 3 times but its been like a year. She's been going out with him since sophomore year,and well she's been pressuring me to hang out this kid and her boyfriend. I never hang out with them because honestly,i dont really like her boyfriend he's very sarcastic and i just dont liek what he and his friends do their just not my type of crowd you could say. So my friend begged this kid to text me and well we texted like 4 times since december. When she always asks me to hang out with him i say no because well a couople reasons. One is that well id have to hang out with her boyfriend and their group of friends which i dont wnt to do. And well i feel like it would be awkward cause i dont really remember what he looks like ( since it's been a year) and well we've been texting each other so its kind of like i guess meeting a stranger who knows alot about ouy which feels weird to me. Third is that i feel my friend's gonna pressure me saying this like "why are you asking like that?" "kiss him" and stuff but im not like that. Im shy around guys if i like them or interested so i feel pressured.And plus i feel liek she says negatuive things about me to him cause she always tells me things like oh he says this is never gonna work out with me and him or she tells him i never hang out with her. But the weird thing is i do want to hang out with him cause he seems like a decent guy so i dont know what's wrong with him? is their something wrong with me? how do i get over this? anyone been in the same situation before?
thank you!
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To start, it sounds to me that your friend, isn't so much of a friend. I had a friend like that in high school, she used me and would go after guys I liked, and would pressure me into kissing guys and stuff. To say the least, she was very damaging and not so good of a friend, but I stuck around anyways. After high school, I never heard from her again, and we were like best friends, we spent everyday together. If you think you like this guy, and not because your friend is pressuring you, then text him and meet up without your friend and her boyfriend there. Do something fun, like bowling or going to an arcade, or just go out for coffee or to a small cafe. After you spent some time alone with him, you will know how you feel. If you like him, try to spend you time with him away from your friend and boyfriend, since they sound damaging.
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