everything is starting to go wrong today two guys played me without me even noticing i feel so awful and depressed its been a few months since my last boyfriend and i really thought it would work out with the first guy i thought he would never hurt me then there was another girl and all the shit he told me i actually fell for it
then with the other guy i was falling for him hes interested in me and everything but now hes saying he has a gf i dont understand this shit
and when i think about it i have no intentions of going out with the second guy
please help me
Nevaeh314 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 4:27 pm: Drop both of them. If they can do that to you, it's not going to ever amount to anything. Do things for yourself for a while, go out with girl friends, take a nice bubble bath, fun stuff like that. Just try not to think about what happened too much, and start to move past it. Eventually, you're going to find a guy who will always be faithful and who will love you completely for who you are. Hope this helps, cheer up soon. <3 [ Nevaeh314's advice column | Ask Nevaeh314 A Question ]
ncblondie answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 12:17 pm: All women (and usually men too) get played at least once in their lives. I know it hurts, but take it as a learning experience. You now know that even if he seems good, it's usually a good idea to hold off on getting attached until you're sure.
Not all guys are like that. Take your time. Let your heart heal. Don't be in such a hurry to fall in love. When the right one comes along, the wait will be worth it and he'll make you feel like the only woman in the world. I dated a series of Mr. Wrongs before giving myself up to being single. I enjoyed the time I spent with my friends, the freedom of not being accountable to anyone, and went out on several dates just for fun. My Mr. Right finally came along when I wasn't even looking.
Don't feel bad or get depressed. You are not the bad person here. One of these days these guys will realize that they missed out on a wonderful woman simply because they were being jerks.
Enjoy being single and not having to worry about a boyfriend getting jealous when you go out with your friends. The best revenge on guys like that is to let them see that you don't need them to be happy.
Girl2GirlbM answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 10:40 am: Aww, im supper sorry to hear that darling. I've had pretty shitty relationships in the past with asshole guys who only care about themselves. And yeah, sometimes falling for them is unavoidable. But to make it safer from now on, get to know the guy before you fall for him and instead of thinking "oh hes cute, he likes me, i'll like him" The sooner you've convinced you'reself that you LOVE him, when you really dont, the more risk you are at getting hurt. Take it slow. I suggest when you meet a guy you think you're interested in.. play the question game. How you play is, you take turns asking eachother a question.. and you HAVE to answer honest and as full as possible. This game will be fun && at the same time an icebreaker to getting to know him & his backround more before you fall for him and end up getting hurt. This way you will know if hes the rigth kind of guy for you or not before it gets to serious. Good luck babe. And cheer up, not all guys are like that =)
GossipGirl56 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 9:02 am: Okay wel it seems like you have a real way with guys.Look i feel realy sorry for you. I can't belive that they did that to you!!! The first boy said that he liekd another girl & you , and then the second one said that he had a girlfriend??? Well there really isn't anything you can do about it. There are just some mean people in the world & you just have to know that.
Hope I helped,
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