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my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.
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This guy raping you is unacceptable!!! Tell your boyfriend, your parents and the police because it is illegal. As long as your alright and don't think your pregnant. Tell people you trust and get this sorted. If you inform the police then he will be put on record, so if does it again he can be prosecuted. Maybe go to your doctor and have a check up.
Tell people and you'll feel better after it is sorted. Get counsiling if you need it, but make sure that the people who care about you know and can help you sort it.
Hope I helped and that you are okay!!!
Gwilwillith xx
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well darling that is defenatly wrong!! you should first tell your parents and if they deciide to call the police tell your b/f just in case you are pregnet an d if you and your boyfriend haven't had sex b4 he might think that you are cheating on him !!! so tell your parents and if all else fails try A counseller or just ask me for some more advice
I hope that I was I big help and remember the saying there in no excuse 4abuse of any kind
FESS UP TO SOME ONE B4 IT IS TO LATE
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look rape is someting very serious. you have to tell your boyfriend whether he beats the crap out the dude or not. or maybe you should tell another friend who you trust. YOU CANT JUST LET THIS GO. rape is something serious and this dude cant just go aroun draping people and threating them. rape is something that people go to jail for. you need to say something.if you need anything or have another question inbox me or hit me up at vanna763 on aim :)
vanna :)
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deffinatly tell your boyfriend asap. if he finds out from someone else then he'll think you were keeping something from him. and the guy deserves to have the shit beat out of him.lol. lots of luck>>>elise
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If i was you i would tell my boyfriend so that he gets what he needs because after all he hurt you so he needs teaching a lession. If your bf does nothing or does not believe you then take it to the police because it is a serious asult people can not go around rapping people. If i was you i would stay away from this boy he seems agressive & a bully he is obviously going to be jealous of your bf so i think your bf needs telling!!! but you must explain to your bf there was nothing you could do to stop him as he was to strong. He obviously said he will do it again if you tell because he is affraid you will tell. I think put a stop to it and tell the police but also your bf needs to know. hope i helped if you need more advice inbox me x
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look if he did all of this then he dirserve to get the living crap out of him. there are probably a lot of other football players including your brother who could whoop his but. or you could take him to a room and tell him to pull down his pants. he will thank u r goin to "blow" him and then BAM ryt in the nutts lol. its kinda of harsh but after what he did he deserves it.
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tell your boyfriend.. let him KICK THE LIVING SHIT OUT OF HIM. he deserves it!
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You need to call the cops. Go to an emergency room, tell them what happened and they will take care of it for you, even though you have probably washed away most of the evidence by now...do it anyway. Tell your boyfriend and let him beat the shit out of the guy. Buy mace and learn to use your knees. Don't know how reasonable the second part is but call the cops on the jerk...ruin his football career. :)
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You should totally get to the police soon before its to late and there is no evidence! You should tell your boyfriend just incase he ever found out some how he would be really mad becsue u wouldn' tell him and its the right thing to do because he probally trusts you.No one should ever touch you or do things to your body that you don't want!! I hope I helped.
P.S. you can always talk to someone like counseling!!
claire
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Go to the police. Now. Don't shower, don't change your clothes, ect. Go to the police and tell them the name of the person and demand to have a rape test done.
If this is too late, then you know for future reference.
I pray it's not too late andf I am sorry this couldn't be prevented, but this isnt a matter for you or your boyfriend to sort out. this boy who did this is a criminal and he commited and illegal act on YOUR BODY. Your body is yours, only yours, and no one has the right to treat it that way without your permission.
Also, you may want to look into counseling to see how you feel about this and explore why you think it happened to you and your feelings on the matter.
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well... tell your boyfriend, & then call the police, cos if he raped you then thats a really serious crime, & he can't do it again since he'll probolly be sent to jail, so stay clear of him, & right after you tell your boyfriend call the police
I'm very sorry about that, its a tragic thing, I'm very sorry & I hope my advise helped
-Cameron
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what a jerk... you should tell your bf and he might straight him out... and he might not like his friend anymore...bc how he treats girls... he doesnt sound a gentlemen ... (guy that hurt you)
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i think that you should just not listen to him...tell someone. if you keep this to yourself then you can't stop it. he'll do it again. just tell a parent or any adult and they'll deal with it. just try not to get too close to him. keep a good amount of space between you and him and you should be fine. but definetly tell an adult right away!! dont panic. they'll deal with it. he'll get in big trouble.
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You need to contact the police immediately and tell your family and the head of your school. Seriously, this is urgent and the loser who did this should be put behind bars.
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Hun i no its hard but you gotta tell your boyfriend. He really needs to no. Alot of rapers say that. I've never been raped but a family member of mine has. She was raped from the age 9-15 almost. She was afraid to tell anyone cause he said he would do it again and again and might kill her. When she told it stopped. He might just be saying that so you dont tell and if you tell then he'll get in trouble and wont be able to do it again. Atleast tell your mom or something hun he could do this to others!! Over 1000 girls get raped a day and barely any of them tell a soul. Just talk to someone about it before he does it again!!
*-* Ashley *-*
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alright well first of all what you need to do, is to tell your parents or someone of a higher authority about that. you need to go& get checked out to make sure you're alright. and second of all, he has no right to do that, you need to tell your boyfriend, whether he's gunna kick the living shit out of that guy or not, he needs to know! as for how he said if you told anyone, he'd do it again..if you tell an adult, they will do something about it, and he wouldn't get the chance to do it again. I'm sorry all that happened to you, I hope I helped!
♥Amber
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You may not think so but this is really really serious, You HAVE TO HAVE TO tell someone pronto! Raping people is against the law! Tell your parents or an adult or anyone! If you tell the police they can arrest him and he can't do anything about it even after he threatened you and if they catch him how is he going to do it again. That guy belongs in jail you are deffinately not aloud to rape someone, your boyfriend might be mad if he finds out and you didnt tell him, but I would tell him after his friend is out of the way. You really need to do something here! I hope I helped!
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you rele need 2 tell somebody.. rape is rele serious. i mean i think you should tell your parents and call the police this guy is sick. & your boyfriend is prolly gonna find out at least once b4 so i suggest that you should tell him even tho your nervous i think he has the right 2 kno if you get hurt, you trust each other and he is your boyfriend he can help with the situation. `♥//
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Ok, this dude is one of the biggest perverts ever. You must go to your parents and then to the police. If you let this coward get away with this, then he will only think he can do it to others, and he will. I am soo sorry that this happened to you. You have to do something though to protect those who may be future victims of this loser. Please help yourself and others by getting this guy punished. Don't be afraid. I hope you do this. Friendly advice from Caleb.
Burnie Mac
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Tell people. The more you get involved with this the less likely he is to do it again. For one the more people that know the more people can help stop it if it happens again. Tell your boyfriend. I'm sure once he knows he will keep you away from him. Get the police involved. This is your body and he has violated it. He can go to jail honey. He has done terrible things and he used a scare tactic to keep him from trouble. But the fact remains he won't be able to do it again if people are there to stand between him and you. I went through some of your same situation only it was my step-brothers. By telling my mom what happened we got them out of the house and a restraining order put on them. I haven't seen them since. They too threatened me. But they are always empty threats.
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it sounds like he needs the shit kicked out of him. if i were you i would tell someone wheather it be a parent, a friend, your boyfriend whatever but make sure you tell someone! or he will do it agian.
hope it all works out
roxy
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