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whaT DO you do if u hear your parents ummm..... doing it. they're like 48 and i think its wrong. They were both making sounds and i don't want to confront either one. please help me i dont no y but it bothers me.
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umm just go up to one of the ones that your closest too and tell him/her that they need to keep it down because it grosses you out! i mean it would gross me out too.
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Wow that is really gross lol..Umm if you don't want to directly confront them, when they are "doing it" ha that makes me laugh..sorry but yeah just yell SHUT UP and maybe they will get a clue lol
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Yeah I wouldn't be able to confront em' either..so what I would do is try to do something else to get your mind on that and everything outta focus.. including noises. But what I might suggest doing is just start listening to music or turn up the volume on the TV a little higher.. something to blast out the noise. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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just dont go near their room when you hear it. its normal. dont get bothered by it because it'll happen to you one day
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Hey--My parents don't ever do that anymore...LoL not that i'm sure of, but I wouldn't confront them about it because maybe you would get in trouble and they might say you were eavsdropping (spying)
Hope I helped---
KenniSki10<3
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It bothers you because you can't bare the thought of you're own mother and father doing it. And because of taboo theyre "too old". The only thing you can do is confront them if it bothers you so much. If you can't bring yourself to tell them then try and find something to do that makes you focused or something that you can't hear them over. Otherwise you'll just have to tell them that they're bothering you.
Hope i helped
anthony
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hmm i think that yeah that is REALLY nasty but.. all you have to do is either bring it up.. if you are that bold :) or if you are shyer with those topics with your parents.. then just pretend you never heard / saw anything..
=) samantha
p.s. and its normal to have it bother you!
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It's not wrong for them to have sex. They're human, they have needs, and they're a married couple for crying outloud. But it's understandable that it bothers you. Nobody, not even the most sick minded person you can think of, wants to think about, see, or hear their parents having sex. Maybe you could get some headphones and listen to music at night, or if you have a spare room far away from your parents you could ask if you can move your stuff in there. Or...*giggles evily*...I don't really condone this, but you could blast your TV and stereo at the same time and when they come in and say, "Stop being so loud!" you can say, "I will if you will." I know a guy who's parents have sex ON HIS BED. I once walked in on my parents playing video games in the nude, and for some reason my father loves to joke about it. I know it totally sucks, but it's just another thing you have to deal with. Just remember your pain for when you have kids and be nice by only having sex when they're at their friend's house or having a room far away from theirs. But for now, you just have to accept that your parents have sex, and put those headphones on. Other than that there is not much you can do, and I really don't reccommend confronting them about it...that's...freaky.
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just blast some music or the tv. if i were u .. i wouldnt want to hear it either. but you should try to ignore it, its something everyone does .. even your parents!!
Good luck <33
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Just tell your parents that you feel uncomfortable or like turn your music up and try to forget it. Get out of the house; go on a walk or something.
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They're your parents, how do you think you were made? Just try to accept it, you might understand when you're older. Yeah, it does sound gross but I guess its just the way of life.
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if that happened to me.. i would turn tha muzik on tha radio or t.v. up enouqh so they could hear it if they think you're sleepinq. that way, they will qet tha hint that you can hear them. hope i helped ♥
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You might want say this to your parents:
I need a really good pair of ear plugs. and if they ask why, tell them there are some noises you hear at night that are really freaking you out.
Might break the ice to talk about the real subject.
Hope this helps.
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♥Believe it or not, that's normal. Just because they're your parents, they still can have an intimate relationship. When you hear that, it's akward, yes. But when you think about it, aren't you glad that they are having sex and happy instead of fighting with each other? This means that they are in a happy and healthy relationship. Saying something about it will only make things more akward, VERY akward. Especially for your parents, wouldn't you be embaressed? Next time you hear them, go in the other room or go for a jog.
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i think talking to them would make things awkward when things dont need to be that way.. i agree with everyone else that doing something else to get your mind off will help...even blast music (using headphones of course) before you hear anything thi way if they do it, you wont even know!
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it`s not really wrong at all.. just if next time comes around, listen to music, watch tv, go outside, call your friends.. you can do anything at all.. just forget about them and what they`re for a little bit. okayy?
xo0x- Kata
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i hate that to but there sint much you can do. what i do is distract myself by doing somethign else to let me 4get about it.
*~Stephanie~*
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well first of all dont asume anything to fast you never no. also i dont think you should talk to them anyway just try to forget about it. i mean it is weird but normal and it might not be that AT ALL i mean you never no. hope i can help and dont worry haha
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it bothers you cause u think about ur parents doing it.. don't next time juss sit back and watch tv , listen 2 music, or juss go outside or something.. `♥//
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TheRe's honestly no stopping them. Just put on headphones and tRy to take a nap.
FoRtunately I've neveR expeRienced this, because I'm always out doin' it muhself! :D
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Well, theres not much you can do about horny parents..ha sorry but since you don't want to confront them about it, just put headphones on, or ask them about moving your room to a diff. part of the house if it bothers you that much.
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Hey, you should be happy for them that they are in a good marriage and are still having sex. It's better then hearing them fight! Next time put on some headphones.
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just forget about it. its a natural part of life, and most likley you will do it too someday.
~*jaimee*~
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