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Q: Okay, well I'm going to homecoming with my best friend (im a girl hes a guy) but i really like him too. He did have a girlfriend but told me he broke up with her for me. He goes to a different high school. Their homecoming was last night. And now I'm really worried, because I havent talked to him for about 2 days and he went to his homecoming dance wiht his old girlfriend who he went out with for about two years on n off. Because he goes to a different school he has to get this permission form signed to go to my schools dance. What if he doesnt want to go now? or what if him n his old gf go back out and then he wont go with me or sign that paper. I think he liked me, but i don't know anymore. online he always tells me im beautiful and will be gorgeous at homecomign and he cant wait to go n how excited he is. but im worried he will change his mind and leave me dateless 5 days before homecoming. I don't really know what im asking.. just whats yur opinion or thoughts, any advice would be great. .... thanks.

it might be hard for him to break up with someone that hes been with for that long. try & hang out with him before your homecoming & after. if he has a screenname you can see if he comes online today and talk to him about it. if he doesnt come online you should call him & talk to him about it. you dont want to be left dateless to your homecoming. hope i helped!

Q: whaT DO you do if u hear your parents ummm..... doing it. they're like 48 and i think its wrong. They were both making sounds and i don't want to confront either one. please help me i dont no y but it bothers me.

ill rate high for good answers

if that happened to me.. i would turn tha muzik on tha radio or t.v. up enouqh so they could hear it if they think you're sleepinq. that way, they will qet tha hint that you can hear them. hope i helped ♥

Q: does anyone know how to get a babysitting job.
need a babysitting job.
plz help me.

okay.. i babysit & im sure i can help you. first off.. if your too younq.. its really hard to qet a babysittinq job. people started to ask me to babysit when i was 12.. more when i was 13 thouqh. one way to qet a babysittinq job is to put up fliars.. or hand them out to people. sometimes qoinq door to door helps more if you have someone with you. another way is to put an add in the paper. even the metro works. qood luck & hope i helped ♥

Q: Ok, so my hair is really REALLY dark brown and i was wondering -- do yall think if i got like, auburn highlights -- would it look good?

i need suggestions -- because i dont like how dark my hair is now -- its almost black! and i want to change it up a lil bit

if you need pix go to my myspace:
www.myspace.com/baybgrl

thanks -- & i rate high 4 GOOD answers..

hey.. i saw your pictures. my best friend's hair is just like yours.. practically blacK ! she qot auburn\Dark red hiqhliqhts & it looked amazinq !! you should deffinetly do it. make sure not to do to thick or to thin hiqhliqhts because it will look more fake. qood luck & hope i helped ♥

Q: My friend told me that he was moving away...I'm very bummed about it but I dont know what I can do...Can someone please help me like how did you feel and what did you do and everything. Thanks a lot!

hey.. well theres really not much you can do. but what you can do is make sure you keep in touch with him.. qet his adress, phone#, screenname, etc.. your qoinq to feel bummmed out because no one wants their friend to move away but theres always a lot of other people. try hanqinq out with other people a lot more when your friend moves. qood luck & hope i helped ♥

Q: er... well. here goes.

theres a guy I like. He goes to my school. Is in my grade, two of my classes, ect. ect.

I talk to him on AIM, we kinda talk at school, and best of all, he doesn't think I'm fat. (long story. Let's just say I wasn't eating anything and my friends are odd)

But, he knows I like him, and doesn't like me back. He's told me multiple times. (again, my friends are odd) But lately, he's been acting like I'm okay. Usually he acts like he hates me. He even IMed me first on AIM (I know its odd, but hey, I guess I blend in with my friends) which is like, a first. Ever. We've been able to talk more, and we're getting along pretty well.

The bad side is, well, I've liked him for so long, now that he's finally maybe liking me, I don't feel exactly the same. I'm in this odd stage where, I do and don't like him. I mean, he's hurt me so much, but I feel like I love him. I can't control my feelings.

So what I want to know is:
Do you think he likes me?
What should I do if he asks me out?
and
Should I take action?(ME asking him out)

I have NO idea what to do.
(13/f)

okay.. i think he just needed time to see if he liked you & that miqht have been the reason he was holdinq back before. if he asks you out you should say yes because you know in your heart you do like him. deffinetly dont ask him out thouqh. he miqht just be takinq his time & if you ask him out it miqht be to soon for him. qood luck & hope i helped !!

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