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er... well. here goes.
theres a guy I like. He goes to my school. Is in my grade, two of my classes, ect. ect.
I talk to him on AIM, we kinda talk at school, and best of all, he doesn't think I'm fat. (long story. Let's just say I wasn't eating anything and my friends are odd)
But, he knows I like him, and doesn't like me back. He's told me multiple times. (again, my friends are odd) But lately, he's been acting like I'm okay. Usually he acts like he hates me. He even IMed me first on AIM (I know its odd, but hey, I guess I blend in with my friends) which is like, a first. Ever. We've been able to talk more, and we're getting along pretty well.
The bad side is, well, I've liked him for so long, now that he's finally maybe liking me, I don't feel exactly the same. I'm in this odd stage where, I do and don't like him. I mean, he's hurt me so much, but I feel like I love him. I can't control my feelings.
So what I want to know is:
Do you think he likes me?
What should I do if he asks me out?
and
Should I take action?(ME asking him out)
I have NO idea what to do.
(13/f)
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Well i bet the reason he acted the way he did before was because he was seeing who you are and how you act. He may have been finding out what your personality was. And now he found what he likes. So I would say keep trying for him.
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well.. it seems like he might like you..
if he asks you out.. say yes if you like him! :)
well.. try to see if he drops more hints of him liking you then try it <3
=) samantha
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Since hes been asked multiple times with a no, you'll have to believe that until he tells you differently.
If he asks you out and you want to go then do so. If it doesn't work out after a date then you can just say this is to weird and remain friends.
If you want to go ahead. If he has been asked multiple times if he likes you with a negative response I think I might wait and see what happens first. Keep up the communication. :)
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Well I would take action because if you have strong feelings you should tell him.. it may not work out.. but at least you can get it off your chest.. hope I helped! :-)
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The way you know he likes you is get someone else to find out. and if he asks you out, then duh! say yes, you have liked him for so long. and with him knowing you have liked him for a long time then rejecting him is just stupid. and don't take action unless you really want to because you could get your heart broken AGAIN from him.
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go for it. if you like him soo much then ask him!! he definetly is starting to like you..he'll give you more signs and when he does...then go for it!! ask him out!! if he asks u and u like him then say yes!!
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I dont really think he likes you and i dont think you like him back so if he does ask you out say no bc you are losing interest in him and can have a better time with another guy, so don't ask him out either, I think you should just forget this whole thing and pretend it never happend Hope I helped!
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Sorry to say but this guy said he doesn't like you so i don't think he likes you, but i really think that he likes you as a friend because he talks to you. I went through something like this not too long ago so i know if they say they don't like you they don't but they will still be your friend. If he does ask you out ( i could really be wrong)you need to think if you feel the same, since he did hurt you once how do you know he won't hurt you again when someone else comes along. If it was me i'd find someone else that likes me better and won't hurt me
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guys are weird on showing there feeling tords another girl. they sometimes try hiding it or denying it.i think he might like you but maybe he just wants to be friends wit you or i can be wrong and he wants to get to know you better be4 going out wit you. since you dont noe if you should or shouldnt go out with him then you might want to think about it. like think about the reasons of why you like him and why you dont like him. my opinon is i wouldnt go out wit a guy if he hurt so much. because if you go out with him and he breaks up with you you will be going through more pain and get hurt more then he is worth. you get me?? hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Well its true when guys criticize you they actually do like you. I know strange. And another thing, about 89% of guys prefer if girls mkae the first move too! I think you should wait it out a little more and see if his feelings go a little deeper. And if he asks you out, give it a shot. I mean youve liked him for so long he deserves his chance right? If you do wait a while and it seems like he likes you, you should go ahead and ask him out. If he says no, thats okay, there are other fish in the sea. Well i hope i helped!! Sammerz
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i dont know if he likes you, because maybe he's just acting that way because he thinks of you as a good friend now. but maybe he does like you. just dont jump to conclusions too fast that he might like you. if you do like him, and he asks you out, go for it. dont ask him out. if he likes you, let HIM do it. oh & also if he has already hurt you maybe you should just move on? since it seems your already half there! good luck!
♥ nicole
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Well, sometimes when boys act like they hate you, it means they like you. They act like they hate you, because they are hiding their real feelings for you.Sometimes it is true, sometimes not but I know it was true for someone I liked. My sgguestion is just go ahead and ask him if he likes you, before he changes his mind. Good luck!
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thaz not a fukin question....
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okay.. i think he just needed time to see if he liked you & that miqht have been the reason he was holdinq back before. if he asks you out you should say yes because you know in your heart you do like him. deffinetly dont ask him out thouqh. he miqht just be takinq his time & if you ask him out it miqht be to soon for him. qood luck & hope i helped !!
♥aLexz
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ok i just have to say i LOVE how you worded the question lmao! (my friends are odd..) ok but back to your question i think he might like you now that he's accepting you or he could just be treating you like a friend. umm if he does like you he'll ask you out so dont ask him out (trust me, im odd haha jk i know really dont do it!!) and i wouldnt expect the match to come anytime in the near future...give it a while. hope this helps! <3
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if he asks you out and you really like him alot say yes...He might just like you as a friend and he might want to get to know you....dont ask him out first whatever you do just wait until he says it first or unless you want to ask him out well than go for it and ur young and there are so many more guys out there
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