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Question Posted Monday January 3 2005, 10:36 am

ok, i am totally head over heals for this chick.. she is beautiful.. and kind.. and she says to me that she isnt ready for a relationship.. or that she doesnt want to be more than friends.. but i keep getting this feeling that there could be something more! and so i told her to look deep in her heart and see whats there... and to ignore everything her brain is telling her.. then she replies that what i wrote was beautiful and to give her a week to sort things out and not to talk about me and her in a relationship and give her space.. what does all this mean!?!?! by the way most of this is all said in email but yeah.. its the easiest way to comunicate.. plz help!!

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xhillary answered Monday January 3 2005, 8:15 pm:
What it basically means is-

Shut up. Don't talk to her about liking her for a week, and you have a chance.

Just talk to her like she's a friend- not like you like her for a whole entire week. While you're not annoying the hell out of her, and making her life more stressful, she's going to sort out her life.

The chances are that if you do what she asks- and don't talk to her about being in a realationship with you for a week, and just get off of her back, she might say yes. =)

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DestinedxTragedy answered Monday January 3 2005, 4:24 pm:
Well, maybe she just needs time to think about what she wants and if it is the right time to be in a relationship. She could also have feelings for someone else and just doesn't want to hurt you. This could mean a lot of things. But, I think you should give her some time and after awhile, if things don't work out the way you want them to then ask her if there is a possibility that in the future something could happen between you two. Just give it some time. I hope things work out for you!

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kitty_kat123 answered Monday January 3 2005, 3:30 pm:
Let me try this again. She does like you! There ya happy? I'm lieing now!

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StrawberryHEARTsyou answered Monday January 3 2005, 2:07 pm:
Well ok, sometimes girls need there space and i know they always seem like tehy need somebody around them but if they get to much they begin to get annoyed. if you really like her Give her that space and talk to her as your friend.,. if she see's that you respect her tehn maybe she can understand that is how you are gonna be if you do go out. Just give her time show her that you do respect what she says .,. but dont give up.,. never give up!

Hope this helped!
<3 ya

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Christeena answered Monday January 3 2005, 1:02 pm:
I think she needs time to think, so don't press it. Give her the week and let her approach you first. If you press things at all this week, she's more likely to say no, so back off for a little while. Good luck!

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givingbackmonday answered Monday January 3 2005, 12:45 pm:
i think shelikes you but isnt sure she wants a realationship, likeshe said. just give her time aand space and im sure it'll work out for the best! good luck. and by the way youre really sweet!

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lilcutie1212 answered Monday January 3 2005, 12:39 pm:
It means just as she says give her awhile to think it out! k babe? XoXoLexiXoXo

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dancinqueen08 answered Monday January 3 2005, 11:12 am:
Give her space if she asked you to. She's probably just trying to sort things out herself and if you pressure her it will scare her off. Leave her alone until she comes to you. It's obvious she likes you, so just give her some time to come to terms with that.

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