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heyy ok.. one of my bestfriends has this secret and she only told me and my other bestfriend but she told us not to tell our other bestfriend (all four of us are bestfriends) but anyway.. i told that person n i kno i shouldnt have but it was too hard not to. We also fight alot.. we say really mean things to eachother and hit eachother as a joke.. but do u think thats a good friendship? Let me know wat u think! thanks a bunch!<3
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this sounds exactly like me and 3 of my friends we'll call them..."K" "c" and "l" we all have nicknames krispy camello and laurabug okay if you promised you wouldn't tell then why did you..i mean if she really was your best friend then why did you tell her...if she wanted the other best friend to know she would have told her, herself...okay so does the friend with the secret know you told the other bestfriend...because you need to apologize or somthing...but if she really is a friend she'll understand and then it'll all be fine...as for the mean things and hitting me and my friends do it all the time...but we know we are just joking...don't worry about it
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honestly your friendship isn't a all what a friendship should be. your guys are acting more like enemies towards one another and that is not what friends do. when a friend tells you not to tell a secret you don't tell because you are trusted and that trust may be broken if you take advantage of it. now that you have told that secret she may not trust you again and you may have to earn back her trust. and as for saying mean things to one another well that is just rude and friends don't do that with one another. as for the fighting if you fight a lot then well you pretty much don't like being around people who constantly fight with one another. as for the hitting unless you are really being abusive then it's bad but if it's playful then that's fine. it seems to me that your friendship again is not a friendship at all it's just made up. you need to sit down and talk to your friends and let them know that this friendships needs some work. and that you guys need to trust one another and keep secrets when told to. you need also need to tlak about stopping all the fighting with one another and you also NEED to talk about these issues and make sure everyone understands. good luck!
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Well, If you can't trust each other then no. All relationships are based on trust and honesty. However, like my friendship with one of my best friends, we also get into fights. But, we know that they only make our friendship stronger. Its really not for me to say whether you guys have a good friendship. If you are truly happy with them as your friends then it probably is a good friendship. But, its up to you to decide. Good luck!
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Hummm it deffiently isnt a good realtionship. You and your friends sound sorta like me and some of my friends. We know we have problems and we try to work them out and yes its really hard to talk to them about it but it does help. Somedays we cant go 1 day with out getting into a gay fight. So when we see taht we are fighting over something so stupid we say " ok this gay can we please start before it gets serious" and then we talk w/e it is out. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt. You just need to sit your friends down and tell them that you all have a trust problem. Try to talk it out. I kno it sounds so gay but wen u sa that to someone it does get threw {mostly case they dont wanna hear you say it again} so give it a try!
good luck!
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In all friendships people fight its part of life!! xOxOlEXIxOxO
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no because if all four of you can't trust eachother...then that's not a friendship sorry
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