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How do you REALLY make out.... I need to know...and dont say "oh its easy theres really no way to explain it just go for it...go with the flow" thats stupid and doenst help... say what you actually do...i need help!!!!!
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Ok, I know what you are going through. Basicly, the other person puts their tounge in your mouth and you do the same. Thats all. And, your tounges just move around. I'm sorry if this sounds weird or didn't help you but thats how I would explain it.
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i know its not what you want to hear but you really do have to go with the flow. is really jus a lot of french kissing. good luck!
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the first time i mkade out with someone i had no idea what was going on, so i just kinda went with and once you do it its easy. and if that doesnt help free2beme haas good instructions. good luck
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making out is pretty much just french kissing.. and a little feeling up.. i mean.. grabbing asses n stuff like that. thats about all there is to it!
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Hey there-Before I answer your question it is first and foremost to make out only when both parties involved are 100% willing and ready. With that said: Just remember these things in case you are really worried:
Making out is basically kissing with mouths partially open and tounges making contact with each other. Start with a basic kiss on the lips then open your mouth slightly, and slide your tongue out a bit, until it just touches your partner's lips. Lick against them gently until your partner gets the hint and opens up a bit. Keep sliding your tongue in further, tickling your partner's tongue and lips with your own tongue. Think of your tongue as a finger, lightly brushing against your partner's skin. The touch is soft but tantalizing.
Don't be doing lots of other things with your hands while you French kiss. This distracts the person you're kissing! Just hold them and have them focus on this tongue and what it's doing. That should be the primary focus in a French kiss.
When you're both comfortable with the tongues touching, start getting even more erotic. Slide your tongue along your partner's tongue. You're sort of reproducing the sex act here, with your tongue. So slide your tongle along the other tongue gently at first, and then more and more quickly. Do circling moves, where you go around the tip of the tongue, and then do a thrusting slide down the length of the tounge. Then ease off and circle again.
This isn't about strangling your partner with your tongue or getting slime all over the place.
Don't be nervous!! It's no big deal and it's going to be a great memorable experience for you. :)
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lol, I know how you feel.. the first time I made out with someone (in my case a girl as I'm a guy) was in year 8.. i had no idea what to do.. but as the time came.. it just sort of happend naturally.. beleive me youll know what to do.. its an instinct..
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well i am going to be one of the people who say that there really is nothing to it. and to just go with the flow because rainbowcherry has exlained some things for you, quite well actually. but trust me once you try you will understand and see why people just say to go with the flow. and you will see that there is nothing to it, thats it an easy, go with the flow kind of thing.
one more thing... just be relaxed and have fun.
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The people who say to go with the flow are right. You will understand when you make out with someone, there is no real way. Anyhow, I like the idea of being a make out tutor:
Find somewhere comfortable where you and your partner can be alone together. Start with little kisses, no tongue, and work your way up to using your tongues. If you are a girl, and I have this feeling that you are, stroke his/her face as you kiss him, maybe run your hands through his hair. If you are a boy, then gently place your hands just up the end of your partner's top, don't go too far up straight away, just stroke around that area for a while. DO NOT USE YOUR TONGUES LIKE A WASHING MACHINE ON SPIN CYCLE. It will ruin the experience for both of you. Just go gently. Once you've got used to making out, maybe you could start to experiment a bit. If you are a girl then start to place your hands in other places, wherever feels good. If you are boy, start to take you hands a little further up his/her top, explore a little. Just do whatever is best for you and the person you are with.
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