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What is he thinking?!?


Question Posted Monday January 3 2005, 1:59 am

Okay me and my x b/f went out for like 3 months.. and even thou that doesn't seem like that long it really was.. we really had something.. but i feel like i screwed it all up bc towards tha end i wasnt really acting like his gf and stuff.. but now its been like 2 months and i still like him sooo much.. and i wanna know how he feels but i dont wanna ruin our friendship that we have by mentioning something so what do i do?? and i know that if we went out again then i would change everything.. but plz HELP!

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StrawberryHEARTsyou answered Monday January 3 2005, 7:09 pm:
Well if you want to start talking about your realationship with him .,. first apologize for the last part of the realationship. Tell him you really like him as a friend { or however you feel} and ask him if he feel sthe same way. If you guys have a friendship it shouldnt be broken if you talk about stuff. GOOD lUCK

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Bellesono answered Monday January 3 2005, 3:03 pm:
Dear Changed,
Are you sure that you would change everything that you did from before? Yes? I have heard of so many people having something to say but not saying it because their afraid of the outcome. You never know. Do you want this relationship? Then go for it. You live once, right? People change and I am sure that if the both of you were meant to be then you will both accept each other for the way that you both are. Am I right? Good luck.
♥Sarah and Brandon

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becki817 answered Monday January 3 2005, 2:54 pm:
Hey .. i had the same problem.. I went out with this guy named mike and it lasted a little longer and we broke up... because we werent really doing anything.. and when we broke i realized how much i liked him.. and i kept liking him for a while.. but i was too afraid to ask him.. now i feel like i missed out on something that could have been really good. So i suggest that you talk to him. Maybe you could have a friend ask him what he thinks of you so that when you talk to him you wont feel like an idiot if he doesnt feel the way. But i say GO FOR IT. I hope I helped and I hope that it works out.. keep me updated &hearts &hearts &hearts

~Becki ~

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Cath answered Monday January 3 2005, 6:26 am:
Hi Sweetie,
I'm sorry to say this but if you really want this, you will have to take the risk. Talk to openly... tell him something like "so how have you been ever since... two months ago?" Slowly start bringing up the issue of how you feel and telling him how much you miss him and point out HOW you have changed, WHY you changed, and what he means to you and why you want a second chance. If he hesitates in answering tell him to consider it and take his time-you'll wait. And to do you the favor that if he feels he cannot give you a second opportunity to pretend you never even asked... for the sake of your friendship. OH! Remember, to gain something (even if you had it before and it slipped away from you) you have to earn it or show why you deserve it. Show him someway... show him you are a better person now.
My good wishes sent to you. Take care! ~Blessed Be...

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