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my kid hates me what do i do they are turnin rebelous help!
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LOL nice!! take away stuff from them if their like being bad or soemthing.. but if they hate you then try to do more stuff w/ them! i know i always enjoy it when my mom and dad do stuff w/ me..!
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sit down and have icecream and talk to them dont yell at them and make two day a night icecream night
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ok i just read some of the other peoples answers and i have to say this, your kid does not hate you, its a fact in life, but give your kid some space their growing up, theyll like to hang with their friends and do what they want, if you give them their freedom they will like you and respect you more, but set ground rule, you know cant stay out past whenever, i have to know where u r at all times, stuff like that, and talk to them about it and their friends make sure they know your just tryin to be cool with their wishes you just gotta be in tune with it
MY ADVICE: let them have their space but make sure they know your rules,they will break them sometimes, but hey, their getting older
trust me- im a teen myself
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this may seem reatarded, but they might not HATE you, but want your attention from you or something.
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send him to his r0om..... right... i dont know ure the mommie
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just let your kid do what ever they want to do as long as they stay safe...as long as they are not in danger or doing drugs or any of that sort...just let them do what they wanna do...well, not EVERYTHING but i mean its just a phase..almost every kid does it.
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Make them see a doctor or theripist talk to them even though they hate you ask them whats up why they dont like you maybe you can change something for them if they change something for you! I know Im a kid and when my parents are mean to me i feel like i hate them but im sure they really love you and maybe something happened to them in there personal life! Good luck best wishes happy new year! <3 American Girl
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First of all, why do they hate you, i mean if its because of your rules or w/e then when he/she gets older he/she will understand that your only doing this because u love them, and thats what all parents do, including mine. but ill admit it i hate them at times and well i still love them and nothing will change that but i bet your kid feels the same way..you should talk to your kid and see how he/she feels, because im pretty sure that would help.
Good luck
~becca~
xoxo
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All kids hate their parents. If they claim to hate you beacause of your rules, it's only because they're not getting their way. When they grow up the'll understand, and be happy that you were strict with them. Good luck!
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if they are that wild.. you shoul spank them.. bribe them.. i m sure that they dont hate you.. mayb ethey need some time away from you!! hope i helped! please rate!
x0x0 abbey x0x0
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Hey, don't worry, I'm sure your kid doesn't hate you. Sometimes it seems like I hate my mom, but I really don't. What helps is talking to him/her and telling them how you feel. Sounding pitiful helps, my mom's tried that and it worked on me. Lol. I guess it would help to know why they hated you. Maybe try giving them more space. Teenagers (which I am one) want more space. Time to be w/ their friends. This is the age where parents just aren't cool and want nothing to do with them. (I guess if your kid's a teenager) Try doing something nice for them. It'll suprise them, and they won't hate you. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy New Years!
~*Erin*~
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Okay, a lot of people say to talk to them... If they are teenagers, then they WILL NOT listen!! I know this for a fact because i am one! Once children get older, they want to spend more time with thier friends then their family, you have to except this. I HATE my mother, people say that i don't, but i really do! She pays more attention to my little sister more than me and it is really obvious too! Don't sit down and talk to them, that just gets them more angry and pissed. Just ground them by taking away their phone and computer and not letting them go out. And we hate family quality time, we get really bored with that. If you got video games or board games that they like, just pull it out of the closet and play with them! they will have fun then! I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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Why do they hate you? It would help alot if I knew.Just talk and try to work things out with him/her.
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Well you should develop a relationship with them. Take them and do different activities with him/her. I hope i am a good help if you need anything. Send stuff to my inbox-~laura~
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sitting down and talking to your child will help! believe it or not if it doesn't end in yelling, it will get through to them.
good luck!
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well it would help to know why they hate you but i guess you can always be nicer...
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Ground them. Threaten to send them to boot camp. All kids hate their parents at one point or another. But they don't exactly hate them just strongly dislike. Grounding usually helps a little bit.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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as a kid, i will tell you what our view is. Your kids dont hate you, they just act like they do and/or say they do. They are not afraid of hurting your feelings because the love you, and they know you will always love them back. They may be turning rebellious because they feel you dont understand, and the more you try to stop them from doing things without a reason that seems good to them, the more there going to want to do it. Its a kid thing. Well...i hope i helped
<3xo
Erica
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Come on your at least 18!! Be an adult and stop letting your kids run you!! Lay dwon the law and dont take s*** from them!!
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Children test the limits with their parents to see what they can get away with. It doesnt have anything to do with hate, more with immaturity and lack of self esteem. Set rules and refuse to budge. Establish punishments for certain behaviors and do not back down. Explain to your child when they are punished (and when you are first setting these rules) that you love him/her, are concerned for him/her and are trying to help him/her mold into the responsible adult that you know that he/she can be. Children are more comfortable in most circumstances when their boundaries are clearly defined for them because it shows them that their parents love them otherwise you wouldnt bother. Dont yell at your child when he/she does wrong, talk to him/her. Be involved in his/her schooling and after school activities. Love your child openly and the animosity should dissolve. Try this for a while and if that doesnt work consider talking to your child's school counselor about the problem. They might be able to help you and your child talk. Best Wishes!
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im sure your kid doesnt hate you... just sit down and have a conversation with them... you need to set rules and limitations... dont be soft... punish if they are getting rebelious.. hope i helped ♥ Lexi
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