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scared of what the future holds...
I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 16 months and i truly believe that we are madly in love. I somewhat believe he is the one for me. He's a senior and will be graduating this year, I'm only a junior. I'm really scared of whats going to happen when he graduates. I've seen movies and shows where the couple breaks up because the one goes to college and never sees each other or whatever the deal is. He's not sure where he is going yet but i really hope it all works out. he mentioned something before like "if we're still going out next summer before i go away to college, i'll propose." It's scary how i feel like i could run away and get married with him right now. what do u think about this situation?
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Yeah there are movies out there like that! And sometimes that happens...but if you two love each other enough it will work out..If you are truly meant to be..Love can conquer anything! And if you scared about the college thing then ask him if maybe he could wait a year and go to college when you are out of school. That way you can move wherever hes going to college to and you'll still be together. Yeah at times the future can seem very scary...But don't give up and remind him every day that you love him and show him compassion and stuff and you'll both realize that you should be together and hopefully get married! I hope things work out for you!
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If you still are going out in the summer maybe you guys should wait a little longer to see what the future brings you have your whole life ahead of you, you dont have to get married right away you can wait.
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awhh thats soo cute. if you are both madly in love then you shouldn't worry about what happens when he graduates. what matters is now, and now you have eachother. tell him how you feel. don't be afraid because if you and him love eachother, and how you feel you could marry him, then you can find a way to always stay in contact. i hope i helped.
xoxo` Rinny
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Its really cute I dont know Me and Troy (my b/f) are still together and he lives in a whole nother town about 5 hours away It might work ok
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honestly its hard bein in a relationship wen ones far away.. but if its meant to be then ull b together.. but if he said hell propose den tats koo.. den he really luvs u.. dnt lyk run away n get married lyk be engaged 4 a while till ur ready to get married.. dnt stress it soo much now.. its better to wait till the moment comes n see wat happens gud luk xoxo angie
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lots of couples go through this...if he goes to college far away, then yall wont get to c each other much...but if he goes close to home, then everything can work out.
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I think you should sit and talk to him about whats going to become of your future together when he goes to college, just because of the fact of him saying "IF we're still going out next summer..." What does he mean "if"? Talk to him and let him knwo you want to know exactly where his heart is at, no beating around the bush. because it would be really sad, if after all that time, you just broke becasue he's going to college.
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Ok...
for starters...FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!
be sure to finish highschool before you get married...and if you dont feel ready to marry when your 18 then just give yourself time...if he loves you he'll wait untill your older and more prepared...and 16 months is great I hope everything turns out for the best!
send me a update!!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Well he promised you he'd propose so theres nothing to worry about. Just act normal and when the time comes you guys can talk about it. After he proposes wait until your 18 to get married. So that way if your parents disaprove you can still marry him.
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I really think it will work out if you don't tie him down right this second. Just let him know how you feel, but don't be like "Either we get married or I leave you" because that would scare him off. If he really loves you he will try to make it work.
~Laura~
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I think that you should stay together, just try and visit eachother as often as you can, and it isnt a bad thing that you feel that its normal, i feel that for my boyfriend and he's 16 and im 15 and we've only been goin out for a year so yeah... just whatever you do try and make things work if he goes away..
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I think that if you love him as much as you say then you have nothing to worry about. But you dont want to get married yet... Wait until you finish school. Just until the time comes when you are truly ready for marriage make a promise with each other about staying together. You will have your whole life ahead of you for being together with him or someone else even. But i wish you two the best of luck and i hope everything works out the way yins have planned!
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