I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 16 months and i truly believe that we are madly in love. I somewhat believe he is the one for me. He's a senior and will be graduating this year, I'm only a junior. I'm really scared of whats going to happen when he graduates. I've seen movies and shows where the couple breaks up because the one goes to college and never sees each other or whatever the deal is. He's not sure where he is going yet but i really hope it all works out. he mentioned something before like "if we're still going out next summer before i go away to college, i'll propose." It's scary how i feel like i could run away and get married with him right now. what do u think about this situation?
awhh thats soo cute. if you are both madly in love then you shouldn't worry about what happens when he graduates. what matters is now, and now you have eachother. tell him how you feel. don't be afraid because if you and him love eachother, and how you feel you could marry him, then you can find a way to always stay in contact. i hope i helped.
xoxo` Rinny
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I really like this guy... lets call him M. Well M is SO incredibly nice, and hes cute and funny too! We're good friends, so he's usually easy to talk to. I wanna talk to him, about being more than friends though, because I really like him... Well, everytime I go to talk to him, I can't. I guess he intimidates me because he's so GREAT. How do I approach him without seeming nervous or unconfident?
you can approach him like your just going to have a normal fun convorsation that has nothing to do with any emotional attatchment. then try to find out who he's crushing on, and no-chalontly ask what his "typical girl" is. that should give you some insite to how he is. and once you know this stuff, you should tell him that you have a crush on him. see what he says and just move on from that. good luck!
xoxo` Rinny =)
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I always feel left out and out of place and I always wonder what life would be like without me. I know I have friends who love me but I always end up thinking what would happen if i died... would it make a big difference? I especially wonder what my ex-boy friend would say ... I just want to feel needed, someone who will love me back ... some how when i have a boy friend or someone close to me i feel like i have a purpose ... is that normal ... to want to be needed?
that is normal, don't worry about it because i'm the same way! a lot of people would be heart broken if you died and don't ever question that. you always have a purpose, but sometimes when you have a boyfriend, they make you feel important because of the way you feel when your with him.. i felt the same way about one of my ex's. keep your head up, there's someone out there for everyone. =)
xoxo` Rinny
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My mom doesn't think I should have a boyfriend but I'm 13!!! I think this unfair because a lot of my friends have boyfriends. I had to reject three people I might have said yes to, including the guy I like.I try talking to my mom about it but she just won't budge. I can't have a boyfriend until highschool!
maybe if you waited till high school it might be better, because boys are nothing but trouble and mother knows best! it shouldn't matter whether your friends have boyfriends or not --you wouldn't follow them off a bridge would you? ..but if you feel like being a rebel, then just go out with the person you like in secret, i had to do that a few times because my mom didn't like the boys i chose, but it all worked out in the end! good luck!
any more help ? IM me on AIM- shawtyy x3
xoxo` Rinny
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okay i've liked this guy lets call him "david" for about 2 years now well DAVID and I met in 6th grade cuz i had just moved here and the first time i saw him i knew i would like him but the thing is i hate liking guys because im only 13 and i want to get to live life anyways all through 6th grade DAVID hated me, yes hated is a pretty meaningful word but he meant it 100% he despised me,hated me,disliked me very much however you want to put it, and in the summer i told everyone i had stopped because i could not live my life knowing someone hated me and no one believed me but they didn't make it a big deal well the summer of 6th grade DAVID and i became real good friend and we had lunch and math together in 7th grade so we were really good friends and in 7th grade we always talked and he would help me with my problems and I would help him with his and a lot of people still think i liked him then 7th grade was over and we kept our friendship tight and then 8th grade started and he is in my studyhall and lunch so this would be the 3rd year we have known eachother and every year he has been in my lunch. Everyone thinks he is mean but no one knows him like me he's a real sweet guy and is very caring about his friends and family and will stick up for anyone. Well see i never actually stopped liking him because he always gets me with his smile, but I no what ur going to say ur going to say, tell him you like him he might like you... but I know him too well he'll hate me,despise me,dislike me very much again and if I really do stop liking him which is my goal for this year he won't believe me. So plz help me and here is what he does...when he hooks me up with someone that person never breaks up with me now when i hook him up with someone i tell her she dare now break his heart and she usually doesn't and he just says like I think we should be friends, i don't know but he might be doing that to the guys and sometimes at my locker guys will come and put there arms around me and DAVID will walk by and look at the guys around me in the eyes and the guys will like walk away... is he trying to tell me something?? does he know something?? or does he just want to protect me??
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thank u sooooo much
he may possible like you. it sounds to me like he's grown up over those 3 years and he wants to start something because usually no one gets jealous unless they like you, you know? just try to get answers out of him, like the ideal girl he usually goes for, and stuff like that.
any more help IM me- shawtyy x3
xox` Rinny
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well i like this one guy he is not HOT but he's weird and i guess im attracted to that well me and him know each other 4 a while now and he had broken up with his gf and i guess they didnt talk to each other 4 a while and he LOVES her. me and him are like BEstfriends and he tells me everything but now he talks to his ex that he still has feeling 4 and is 4getting about me when i was there when he needed to talk to someone and tear out his feeling to.and now that his ex and him talk its like if im not there and he barly talks to me and i miss him terribly and the way it use to be and i think i have feeling but i cant cause he LOVES that gurl so much.well plz help me!whAT CAN I DO ABOUT MY FEELING OR WUTEVER OR EVEN EXPLAIN MY FEELINGS. :/
awhh, just tell him how you feel, and have felt about him. let him know you understand where you and him stand. that's all i can really say =/ good luck!
xox` Rinny
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i have these kids i babysit for, and i mean theyre okay and everything, but they dont listen!! i dont know what to do, i even take out my cell phone and pretend to call their moms! theres a 8 year old A.D.H.D. boy, a 4 year old girl, and an infant. i get paid 4$ an hour...does that seem like enough for what i have to deal with?
wow that's deff. not enough, 3 kidds that need a lot of attention for $4.00 ! ask for a raise, and explain why, but don't make it seem like it's too difficult for you, just explain that it's a lot of hard work and that maybe $5.00 would be better.. but it also depends on how long you have to watch them for. good luck!
xox ` Rinny =)
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I am a freshman in high school...There is this guy in school that I like... his name is nick and well some people say that he likes me tOo. We are talkin all the time and we are each others hoes... yea not really funny but its an inside joke... AnyWayZ. I like him and so does my friend paige but that really doesnt matter... but this girl breanna is like threatin'n me like if I go out with him she is gunna beat me up and I dont know what to do... we are always together and we both told her to leave us alone and she wont... I dont wanna get her mad at me and make her wanna beat my butt... but I like him.... what should I do!
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Erika
i don't think it's up to anyone else but yourself if you go out with this guy. but if shes seriously gona beat your butt, then girl you either drop the guy or go out with him in secret.. or just dont tell anyone that you don't trust. =/ i hope i helped
xox` rinny
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Okay, sorry if this is a little long, but please read it. There is this kid I met at the beginning of this school year. He's in some of my classes and I talk to him online. I like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me. He talks to me a lot online, and he looks at me in class. He also waves to me sometimes. I just met him too, so it's not like we are close friends. So what do you think about this? Thanks!
oook ? uumm well i'm sorta in the same situation, but i don't think talking online and not in person is a good way to get to know someone.. get over your fear and say "hey what's up?" or say "do you understand this homework? (if he says yea) oo ok well can you help me on it after school.. if your not busy" ..so that way you 2 can get to know eachother a little more and you can spend time with him, so that way you know if you really like him or not. =)
anything else jus IM me on AIM- shawtyy x3
xox` Rinny
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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees.
i agree, if you feel like you dont need to worry about that then go for it. but don't just flaunt yourself all over having sex with any who ha guy =) that'll cause you a notorius reputation that no one needs.. remember: Practice Safe Sex lol good luck
xoxo` Rinny
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hey,
theres a girl who's been my friend since i was 4. now im 13 and and shes my bff. well, she told her mom a bunch of shit and her mom got mad at my mom. she's been a good friend to me, but i know that she can be two faced. she can be my bff one minute, another shell be talking bout me. but the thing is is that we get along really good. should i still be her friend even though shes 2 faced?
plezzzz dont delete.
that's a tough question, but you should really talk to her about that situation the best way you can. don't approach her like your criticizing her (even tho that's what your really doing) but calmly explain how you feel.
any more help ? IM me on AIM- shawtyy x3
xox` Rinny
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I feel heart broke, and it makes me so sad. I always try to not grow too attached to a guy cus im so young and i just really wanna meet new people and just have fun. WELL theres this guy i met and hes the bomb digitty and i really like him and everyone says he likes me too but he sometimes doesnt pay attention to me, he only does out of school and that really bothers me and i dont know why, i dont want it to. WELL yesterday i was at a party and he was there with his friends, and i was dancing with his friend (my bro calls it humping... haha) And the guy i like just stood there looking at us and i didnt pay any attention.. well after we were done dancing i was looking for him and he had left. He was gonna go to another party tho, but he left pissed off... i LOVE making guys jealous.. well do you think that he does like me? I HOPE SO
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he probably did like you, but it's not right to make boys jealous.. i don't think you would like it much if he was "humping" someone right in front of you =/ ..try to play nice lol.
xox` Rinny
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I dread going to school everyday. I hate it this year and its not my 1st year of highschool. I hate mosta my classes and the people in them...i can never get motovated to go and plus my school sucks big time. My parents always say "well having my job is worse" but my school sucks pretty hard. I hate it and sumtimes i even wish it would burn down lol. Is there sumthin that i can do to not dread it so much?
if you get involved in some of your school's after school activities, and if you try to make friends with some of the people in your class, then maybe you'll actually have something to look forward to.. i just started high school this year and i was afraid of that so i made as many friends as i could, and i absolutly LOVE high school.. so just open up your heart and mind a little more =)
xox` rinny
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My friend keeps copying everything I do. Like getting contacts.. my sneakers.. classes. Stupid stuff like that. It just annoys me and I dont want her to get upset over it but it just gets on my nerves. How can I bring it up without hurting her or making it seem like I'm sick of her or something liek that ?
if you just talk to your friend about how cool something that she does (origionally) then sooner or later she'll catch the hit that she's a great person who doesn't need to follow someone else's trends.
xox` rinny =)
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ok, well i have this friend actully i would like to think of her as a best friend, cause she really is!! shes so nice and were really good friends or we used to be, but ne we never hang out ne more, i still call her one of my best friends cause she is! but i saw this one thing and it said her best friend and i wasnt on there, and i know u can have more then one best friend, but how do i find out if she still thinks of me as a best friend or not??
signed:am i a lousy friend?:
i think you should deff. talk to her so that you're not wondering.. and yes you are allowed to have more than one best friend. just try to hang out with her again, and if she doesn't accept your invitation: she's not your best friend anymore. but she could be your friend, you never have to lose a friend =)
i hope i helped!
if you need anything else just IM me shawtyy x3
xox` rinny
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i think i am being stalked. i get weird emails from somone named "zoner" and when i walk home from skool theres someone close behind me but after i turn around a few times they go away. what should i do?
ewhh.. you should deff. tell an aduLt bcuz someone could kiddnap you! ..that wouldn't be too good =/ umm about the emails, you should block all emails from him/her, or just not respond and delete them from your box.. i hope i heLped! good luck!
xox` rinny =)
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Hello, i just broke up with my boyfriend not to long ago about some thing stupid, but i still like him and i wanna go out with him again...i cant seem to talk to him though because i broke up with him but we talked once after 2 weeks of our break up and i sounded stupid what should i do??????.............
Nikki
that's happened to me PLENTY of times. just appologize if you think thats necessary, and try to let him know exactly why you broke up, or put the blame of the break-up all on you.. and tell him you're ready now and that you feel more mature about the situation =)
any more help just IM me on my AIM s/n- shawtyy x3
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okay.. this ones for the girls obviously..well i'm 14 years old and my boobs are really weird. like the areola and nipple are blended together.. my nipple is rarely out unless im really cold! this makes them super pointy n ugly!!! is this just a stage .. will my boobs be normal when they grow a little more? sorry but i really need help with this! i HATE it!
ok.. the first thing i have to say is.. chill! that's never happened to me and i'm also 14, but i'm sure things will .. even out? as you get older you will develope more, and you may just be growing at a slower pace then others.. but that is o.k. -just give yourself time, and things should get better. good-luck!
xox `rinny =)
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ok well my boyfriend asks me to make out with him and stuff and I say yes but we dont..I really wanna tho..and like we go to our schools football games with our friends and then meet there and he like puts his hand around me and like holds me and stuff but all we do is kiss on the lips but he asks me to make out with him there online but then we dont..I want to tho..and then at school we talk alil but like never hug at school..then last week we went to see a movie and he was talking his friend that he was gonna make out with me but he didn't..I'm to scared to do..and I dunno what I would say to him like writing a note or like on aim..please help!
i had the same problem.. =/ you should tell him how you feel, and tell him that you are confused about why no one ever makes the first move. let him know that you really want to, and let him know that you feel comfortable and ask if he is.. try talking to him in person, but if you don't feel comfortable, then use the telephone!
i hope i helped ! if you have any more questions just IM me on my AIM s/n- shawtyy x3
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