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Crushing


Question Posted Monday September 20 2004, 3:29 pm

Okay, sorry if this is a little long, but please read it. There is this kid I met at the beginning of this school year. He's in some of my classes and I talk to him online. I like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me. He talks to me a lot online, and he looks at me in class. He also waves to me sometimes. I just met him too, so it's not like we are close friends. So what do you think about this? Thanks!

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Additional info, added Monday September 20 2004, 4:20 pm:
I'm shy around guys I like..so I wouldn't be good at talking to him about it. Yeah.. I know it's not long..everyone is saying that..but I just wrote it, cuz you never know..I might get into it, and it might become a page long..so ..i did it just in case..lol .

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shawtyyX3 answered Monday September 20 2004, 6:44 pm:
oook ? uumm well i'm sorta in the same situation, but i don't think talking online and not in person is a good way to get to know someone.. get over your fear and say "hey what's up?" or say "do you understand this homework? (if he says yea) oo ok well can you help me on it after school.. if your not busy" ..so that way you 2 can get to know eachother a little more and you can spend time with him, so that way you know if you really like him or not. =)

anything else jus IM me on AIM- shawtyy x3

xox` Rinny

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Courtney answered Monday September 20 2004, 5:23 pm:
When you are online and chatting , ask him if he wants to go out on the town if you're allowed to go on dates . Talk get to know each other a little better and keep having these meetings but don't let it get where it's too obvious that he knows you like him . Just get him to open up . You're going to have to get over the fear of shyness because, you'll acomplish nothing by being shy . But it's 100% being shy because, it's natural . Just get a grip on it and you should do just fine . Well I hope I was some help and have a nice day .

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AngelaMarie824 answered Monday September 20 2004, 5:15 pm:
I think u should go for it and tell him how u feel.(if u cant do it in person then theres always notes,e-mails and Im's.) let him kno that ur shy and that u need to get into ur skin around him and act like urself.Im shy too and I kinda asked the same question, but ive been working on Not being shy lol... it actually helps! uhhh i hope i helped...

If u have anymore questions IM me! *CraviinKiisses8*

GooDLucK!
~*AnGe*~

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Uniq_The_Geek answered Monday September 20 2004, 4:42 pm:
this happened to me last year... i sent him a note and i got crushed by my crush. it sux. well maybe he does like you, or maybe he's just bein freindly. u say u guyz tawk online, so just bring it up like'do u like anyone in da class'. maybe he'll respond da rite way.

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xOmAnDaH answered Monday September 20 2004, 4:17 pm:
If you are shy to confront him try writing a note about your feelings for him..I think it sound like he likes you..And by the way thats not long at all lol..hope i helped..

xoxoxo
mandah
xoxoxo

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liddylflirtx3 answered Monday September 20 2004, 4:16 pm:
I think that you two are definitly flirting, and that there are signals coming from both sides that you two are into each other! The waving and staring means that he definitly has a crush on you!

I wouldn't recommend confronting him and spilling your heart out to him right this second, but maybe make some subtle movements like inviting him to the movies or meet up at a football game or something.

Tell me how it turns out!

xoxo Julie

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Mercy_x_Me answered Monday September 20 2004, 3:56 pm:
Hey first off your questions not long at all, hehe. Second of all maybe he's crushing the way you are, you don't have to ask him, i just think you should hang out more, before you do anything. Invite him over, to a movie ... anything, but if you're closer it will be easier to tell and he will be easier to talk to. Once you guys know eachother a little more and its nothing TOO soon, have a friend ask him if he likes ne 1.. and go from there. Good luck.. xoxo

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LilMia811 answered Monday September 20 2004, 3:35 pm:
Maybe he likes you, who knows? the only way you will find out is if you ask him. So go aheda and ask him or have a friend ask him if you're too scared or shy.

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GC_rox_my_sox answered Monday September 20 2004, 3:33 pm:
I was in a similar situation. I talked to him online and a little bit in school, and it turned out he liked me. I heard this from a couple of reliable sources (I heard from his friends, and he told some of my friends, who then told me) but he never asked me to be his girlfriend. I think that if you like him, you should make the first move.

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