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theres a girl who's been my friend since i was 4. now im 13 and and shes my bff. well, she told her mom a bunch of shit and her mom got mad at my mom. she's been a good friend to me, but i know that she can be two faced. she can be my bff one minute, another shell be talking bout me. but the thing is is that we get along really good. should i still be her friend even though shes 2 faced?
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MummuM answered Monday September 20 2004, 5:47 pm: Wow, that's a really good question. Look at it this way.. if you were in a relationship with a guy and you couldn't trust him because he always cheated on you, would you honestly want to keep up that relationship? This is kind of like you and your bestfriend. "Bestfriends" don't talk about eachother behind one others back, then act like your bestfriend to your friend. That's just plan low. I think you should tell her how you feel and how much she is hurting you. If she is your bestfriend she'll understand. Hope everythig works out for yah! [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday September 19 2004, 7:53 pm: If I was in your position, I wouldn't be her friend. How can your BFF be so nice and friendly to you and then talk behind your back when you are not with her? You can find better people out there! Just tell her straight up that you hate it when she talks behind your back. Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
JesusFreak2006 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 7:46 pm: personally i wouldnt you can find a real bff who isnt 2 faced who wont talk bad about you behind your back..the reason why you guys prolly get along so well is she realises she can hurt you and you wont leave and thats wrong...
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 7:44 pm: Hey! Well, maybe you should try to talk to her about this and tell her whats up. Just be like "We've known each other since we were 4, and we're now 13. That's a long time to be friends with each other. But, you told your mom a bunch of stuff and now your mom is mad at my mom. Why did you tell your mom a bunch of stuff that's not true? Do you not want to be friends with me anymore? Because, I mean we get along really well, but it's like one minute you're my best friend and the next you're talking a bunch of crap about me. I don't like that, I mean best friends don't do that to one another.." Just say something like that and how you feel about it. Just tell her whats up. Ask her what you want to know and stuff. I hope this helps and good luck. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
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