I really like this guy... lets call him M. Well M is SO incredibly nice, and hes cute and funny too! We're good friends, so he's usually easy to talk to. I wanna talk to him, about being more than friends though, because I really like him... Well, everytime I go to talk to him, I can't. I guess he intimidates me because he's so GREAT. How do I approach him without seeming nervous or unconfident?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shawtyyX3 answered Tuesday September 21 2004, 4:36 pm: you can approach him like your just going to have a normal fun convorsation that has nothing to do with any emotional attatchment. then try to find out who he's crushing on, and no-chalontly ask what his "typical girl" is. that should give you some insite to how he is. and once you know this stuff, you should tell him that you have a crush on him. see what he says and just move on from that. good luck!
Mercy_x_Me answered Monday September 20 2004, 10:35 pm: Look into his eyes. Dont look at everyone else around you. Pretend the rest of the world isnt there, and its just the two of you alone. Say what you would if no1 else was there. As long as you dont bring up awkward conversations, your fine. Plus guys aren't picky, they would care more if you didnt talk ... gl !! xoxo [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
Thickbabyie4u answered Monday September 20 2004, 10:15 pm: BeEh YoU! Don't let him go gurl! He sounds like a keeper! Be calm and jux approach him....if you really really think about it, what is the worst that can happen? Are you gonna lose your life over this? NOPE! Boiz come and go but FRIENDS are forever! So yeah, take a chance, if you never ask you'll never find out, but if he says no, who's loss is it? HIS OF COURSE! Take a chance! May God Bless and Good Luck! Beebyes! [ Thickbabyie4u's advice column | Ask Thickbabyie4u A Question ]
rebel_of_rock09 answered Monday September 20 2004, 9:49 pm: OMG... thats what its like with my friend, Travis, and i really like him ALOT and we talk all the time and i know i wouldnt be able to ask him out by talking to him face to face, so tomorrow im gonna ask him out through a note, so i dont have to look at him when he answers!! You know maybe u can do it that way too!!! I hope this gives you an idea of how you can talk to him about more than friends, BYE! [ rebel_of_rock09's advice column | Ask rebel_of_rock09 A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Monday September 20 2004, 9:48 pm: Try talking to him on the internet or writing him a letter. Just be like "I've been wanting to tell you something, but everytime I get the courage to tell you, I get scared. So, I thought this would be the best way to teell you. But, I know we're good friends and I think you are so nice and funny. But, I've began to like you more than friends and I want to know how you feel about me..." Just say something like that and how you feel and stuff. I hope this helps and good luck hun. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
Lasag69 answered Monday September 20 2004, 9:48 pm: Breathe...walk up to him, take a deep breathe and spit it out. If you really like him you really need to tell him how you feel, if you don't your always going to be wondering. But if you can't seem to get the courage to tell him face to face, try writing a letter, might seem childish, but a letter is always good, and it works. Just get your feelings across to him and you'll be alright. Everyone gets nervous so you just need to push yourself a little harder. Hope i helped.
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