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parties
ok i need help i cant decide between 2 parties, both are this saturday & i know its my decision & all but i just need input
ok so Party A:: the girls whos throwin it i mean we both know each other but weve never talked to each other but shes 2 of my other friend's friend too. i kno a buncha people that are going to this, its gonna be like one of those big blow out my-super-sweet-16 kinda deals. i got invited to this one first. the down side is i need a semi-formal dress haha
Party B:: one of my friends from last semester is havin it. its a pool party and i only kno like 3 people that are goin. i wasnt invited to this one till i had pretty much already decided i was goin to the 1st one [although i hadnt RSVP'd or told anyone i was goin]. but the thing is this girl is actually one of my friends from last yr although i havent seen her at all this yr. i dont wanna upset them by goin to the 1st party esp. since a lotta ppl dont like the girl whos havin the 1st party [personally i dont have anything against her i dont see why a lotta ppl are like 'dont go to hers' and stuff]
so basically id kinda rather go to the 1st party but the thing is i dont wanna let my friends down, + id have to go buy a dress anyway.
what should i do?
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well... my opionion is that you should go to the party A because you were asked to it first. and you say you know most of the people that are going to it.. so thats a pro.. the con is that you have to where a semi formal dress. lol just kidding... now about party B you say that you've known her since last year but havn't seen her since then..and then now she's asking you to her party.. well the pro to that is you know her and you don't know the girl who's inviting you to party A the con. is that you don't want to go to party B then don't.. just tell her you've already made plans with someone else good friends should undestand... but you should still her her a birthday present to show her that you care.. well i hope i helped with your decision
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i think you should choose party a because you were invited to it first and you would probably have more fun. if the party times are the exact same, then i'd say go with party a. but if they overlap, i would go to party a first and if it sucks then go to party b. because you would have an excuse to leave party a to go to party b because it sounds like you're better friends with the person that's throwing party b. but if you went to party b first, you would have no excuse to go to party a. if you haven't already told people that you're going to party b, then i'd go to party a. have fun!
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If i were you i would go to the first party.
finding a dress shouldnt be that hard.
just explain to your friend that you were invited to the other party first.
Have fun!
Kait♥
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I would go to the first party. You want to go there more and you would prob. have more fun.
As for your friend, tell her that you got invited to this other girls party first, and you already told her you oculd go (even if you didn't) Then tell her that you two should hang out one day after the party together. She will understand.
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And for the dress, I wouldn't worry about it. You can go to DEB, Dillards, Boscovs, there are so many places to grab one!
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Hey. I would say go to the first party for two reasons. The first reason is that you want to go to the first party more and you have to be happy with your choice. Second thing is that this girl invited you first and it wouldn't be very fair to blow her off. If the partys are at different times maybe you could work around it and go to both? Hope I helped ♥ Kelli
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What if you tried to go to both?
Maybe go to the pool party for a bit, then head to that other party.
Well, if you don't want to do that here's my suggestion: you're friends should still love whether or not you go to their party. Which one would you and your friends have more fun at? Which one do you think you'll feel more comfortable at? Which girl means more to you?
Honestly, this is a tough call.
Not really something us strangers on advicenators can help you with, its just a hard desicion you've got to make. :) Have fun. <3
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